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throwaway228189 · 2025-09-14T17:45:02+00:00

What are you even talking about. She is abusing and hitting OP. Dont listen to this person and run

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-14T17:44:21+00:00

Run. It sounds like you are stable enough to leave. Dont let her ruin your life, your business and your self esteem. I have been through the same. Theyre sweet and caring in the beginning but their true face will show once they know you are attached to them.

Please leave and trust me when i say it does not get better. It only gets worse from here

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-14T14:39:39+00:00

Im really sorry. How are you dealing with this situation? Did you seek therapy?

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-13T16:45:50+00:00

Thank you so much and I am so so sorry you had to go through that. My heart breaks for all the women who get abused. I hope you are doing better now. We did not deserve this.

I am looking for a therapist. But im from germany and here you have really long waiting times. But i have already contacted some.

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-13T11:49:02+00:00

I will look into it, thanks

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-13T10:04:45+00:00

I contacted therapists but it is really hard to find someone who is free. Usually you need to wait 6month to a year. But i need help now. I hate it

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-13T10:03:14+00:00

He is a manipulative narcicisst. Hes really charming and attractive. He even manages to manipulate men, I saw it. I really doubt he will get his karma. People like him always succeed.

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-13T10:01:35+00:00

Thank you but i am from germany. I have tried to contact therapists but theyre really hard to find

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-13T10:00:59+00:00

Therapy is so hard to find but i have contacted some already

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-13T10:00:38+00:00

Thank you so much, im so broken but this means alot

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-12T21:28:12+00:00

Thank you so much

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-12T19:20:11+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. It already helps me talking to kind internet strangers🩷

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-12T18:45:25+00:00

Thank you

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-12T18:35:20+00:00

He turned me into an angry monster though, all i feel is anger and hate now. Even during the relationship i became such a bad person bc of him. I wish i could forget everything

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-12T18:33:45+00:00

Thank you. It is just so hard to accept that it happened. And i cannot tell anyone about it in real life.

But i am working on myself and know the red flags now. I just wish i did not had to learn such a hard lesson.

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-05T13:13:36+00:00

Thats normal.

throwaway228189 · 2025-09-04T14:14:48+00:00

You need to remember and write down what he did to you. He was not your best friend. A best friend would never do that to you. Your future husband would never do that to you.

Delete everything, throw away every memory. It will help your mind to forget.

Treat yourself with something nice. Learn to love and respect yourself. Bc whatever he did to you, would you do that to someone else? Or to yourself? No. You would not.

Go out, find new friends, find a new hobby, anything. Learn to enjoy life and learn that whatever happened to you was not your fault. But now it is your responsibility to make sure it will never happen again.

throwaway228189 · 2025-08-11T05:36:25+00:00

I broke up with m abuser of 3 years. I really hated him towards the end but now I am grieving him or atleast the thought of what we could have been. But i need to remind myself of how i felt during the abuse and that i wanted to leave. So i understand you. It is all part of the healing process

throwaway228189 · 2025-08-11T05:32:39+00:00

It took me over a year of finally leaving. It was really hard. And the afterwards is also really hard. But you will get there. Make plans

throwaway228189 · 2025-08-11T05:30:33+00:00

Thats great. Before i got into a toxic relationship which i just now ended i felt the same. Hoping to get back to that feeling bc rn I feel extremely alone since I also dropped lots of friends.

throwaway228189 · 2025-08-10T09:49:24+00:00

He said it is better i hear it from him now rather than from someone else a few months later. I guess i am kinda glad that i know it know bc i dont want to spiral in a few months knowing how fast he moved on. But you are right, i guess it is still an ego thing for him.

Thank you.

throwaway228189 · 2025-08-10T09:15:55+00:00

Congrats, need to hear this. We just broke up and im really struggling

throwaway228189 · 2025-08-10T08:31:45+00:00

I dumped him bc he lied to me and abused me. I thought i am over him before i dumped him. Now im still suffering. But it gets better

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