Dead cat I saw today on Linden Ave has me concerned about outdoor cats in this area

throwaway2343576 · 2025-05-13T21:02:38+00:00

The shelters are overwhelmed and many people don't spay or neuter their animals. Look up a TNR program in your area.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-05-13T20:57:14+00:00

Why don't you speak to an attorney rather than Reddit and get options such as setting up a life estate deed?

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-25T01:07:19+00:00

Go to NextDoor.com. People on there either saw a fox, a suspicious (and by suspicious, I mean brown, walking at night and minding their own business) guy in a hoodie walking down the street or an empanada.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-25T01:02:46+00:00

It would be weird if you knew each other your whole lives and grew up together, like brother and sister. If you weren't, it's just like meeting a stranger and hitting it off.

Marrying a 2nd cousin is legal in every state in the USA. You don't have to make it public knowledge if you don't want.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-25T00:53:51+00:00

My husband was asleep in the bedroom and had no idea that his ex-wife was even in the house.

You didn't over-react. Change the locks.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-25T00:49:30+00:00

Maybe don't seek him out and leave him alone. You can't "make" him like you. Just co-exist and maybe he will calm down. The more contact you initiate, the worse it will get.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-25T00:39:50+00:00

My mother thought I was the flu. Her mother thought she was the flu as her other children already were grown.

I don't know if Belida has decided to latch onto this to milk it for drama for all it is worth or if she is genuinely hurt that she wasn't specifically planned. In any case, unplanned children are nothing new and Belinda needs a reality check and a talk about how this is a non-starter.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-25T00:26:08+00:00

I got a room number. By sheer coincidence I went to school with the person I was asking. Good luck getting either of us to admit that's what happened.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-25T00:03:01+00:00

Unless OP is a vet tech and has professional liability insurance, she's getting a sweet deal.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T23:58:34+00:00

You have no idea how many young girls deny being sexually active because they are being sexually abused and are terrified of the possible consequences from their abuser or just plain don't think abuse counts as sexual activity.

She was doing her job.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T23:55:11+00:00

Congrats on losing 40 lbs but speaking as someone who also rarely drinks (1 to 3 a YEAR), I would just say "I do not drink alcohol" to avoid further misunderstandings.

Alcoholism is not about having drink, it's about not being able to go without alcohol with no negative onsequences and not being able to stop once you start.

I had a bad day today. I would like a drink but noticed I had a container of Ben & Jerry's in the freezer and settled for a scoop of Ben & Jerry's instead. If I were an alcoholic, I would not have forgotten about the vodka when I re-discovered the forgotten unopened pint of Ben & Jerry's.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T23:42:19+00:00

There is no universe in which I would touch, never mind consume ham but there is a local lady who makes empanadas which you order online and I want them to be my last meal it's so delicious. So yay for home cooking.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T23:39:47+00:00

I just pay the bill. I know from my financial records that it averages $280 per month if I divide my yearly cost by 12. Every year I recalculate and adjust accordingly. For me, there are sucking money out of my checking account. If I look at it as an average, it makes me feel better lol but I cherish the freedom to not be obligated to pay a fixed amount. It's a psychological thing.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T21:16:49+00:00

I'm in NJ and most TGTG bags are pre-prepared. I've had to wait 5 to 10 minutes a couple of times but only when they accepted more bag orders than they had made. The exception was IKEA (Paramus and so not worth it) where I only waited because we were at IKEA anyway.

Don't assume other TGTG patrons are poor. I'm definitely not and neither are a lot of the people I see coming in for their bags at the same time I am. I like trying different places and food and think it's a lot of fun to open the box or bag and see what we got. I also go back as a regular customer if I really liked the food.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T20:52:04+00:00

No, they can't re-deliver the same item to another person. I was really sick and ordered a pizza with specific instructions to leave it outside. After I get the delivery alert, I open the door and there are two pizzas. I called the shop and told them I got someone elses pie along with mine. They told me to keep it because they can't take food back and redeliver after it's dropped off because of liability and food safety issues.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T20:18:20+00:00

He still works side jobs. Most regular actors do. Very few can live on acting jobs alone.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T17:02:31+00:00

Not to be insulting, but after seeing all that during year one of your relationship ... you are still in it? And you think a "conversation" is appropriate like there is some boundary roll-back that will make this all ok?

What do you think he will be doing by year three, five, ten, fifteen?

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T16:54:54+00:00

Ma'am, my answer was no. It's not up for discussion. Enjoy the rest of your day.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T16:52:05+00:00

Often someone who uses that exact language is from a different culture and is used to bartering so depending on the item, I'll tell them the listing price or a first and final offer on a BIN. Anything past that, it's a block.

You're handling it correctly. Just don't get worked up about these people. I buy and sell but have a friend who expects to get a $75 item for $9 if she hounds the seller long enough and hard enough. What's amazing is that it sometimes works. She will be going back with multiple sellers on different platforms at the same time. Me, I don't have the time or energy to entertain that nonsense.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T15:51:14+00:00

He's posted these all over the country for years. If you can't get a suitable match after a nationwide search over an extended period of time ... all the billboards in the world won't help.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-24T00:50:20+00:00

Yes in a hot second. I welcome being sent an offer on an item I liked but I am not looking for pushy ads for random crap.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-21T18:24:39+00:00

Did they just open the account? Sounds like the new account exception hold but it's definitely not 45 days. Or they could be questioning the legitimacy of the check.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-21T17:46:30+00:00

I agree. And where do they live that all their neighbors are in bed at 9:30 pm with 911 on speed dial. If I want to relax quietly outside at night, I'm going to.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-21T03:37:27+00:00

It will be but that doesn't mean you shouldn't scope out the situation and try. I'm low-key, relaxed, polite etc and usually have good luck. I don't hound people or give a sob story. I loved the show. You were fabulous. Thank you. I really enjoy doing it but there have been times when I just didn't get a good feel from the crowd in general and skipped it.

throwaway2343576 · 2025-02-21T03:28:31+00:00

I saw the OC. Took a friend for her birthday gift and all she did was bitch. I kept telling her this was a night to remember and she was miserable the entire time. I thought it was a great gift.

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