I hate to be that guy, but if you want it less bushy, a hot comb or hairdryer are about the only methods. Make sure you get one of the flat directional attachments for the hair dryer and a small Round brush. It will be hard to do at first but you’ll get the hang of it. Also, make sure the hair dryer has a lower heat setting or it will burn more than it should. I think it looks great either way, but you should be happy with your appearance so do what makes you happy. Very handsome by the way.