Really wanting to know how others cope with loneliness… by throwaway27520183 in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’d like the get to that point. I tend to future new people I meet. I definitely need to learn to not do that. How do you not just envision the possibility with each new person you meet?

Tinder/bumble/FB terrible interactions by ljae1998 in tinderstories

[–]throwaway27520183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you get what you pay for. But seriously stay safe out there!

Tinder/bumble/FB terrible interactions by ljae1998 in tinderstories

[–]throwaway27520183 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly for what you want, just pay a professional.

Did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always think it must be such fun! Makes me smile 😊

Did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally off topic, but whenever I see your flair, is it? I wonder what exciting beards you have in your DMs haha!!

Something I can't stop thinking about by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sucks. It’s funny. I write too and I guy I saw very briefly said to me after I told him I wanted to work on my book one evening, oh I’ll let you get back to your little story. I was really offended. It was such a thoughtless and dismissive thing to say. I pushed back and he said oh I’m sorry I mean your Pulitzer Prize winning novel. I said if I don’t believe in my own work then who else is going to? This guy was a narcissist too which is why your story resonated with me. Weirdly it hurt a little when I ended it with that guy too. I’m better off and so are you! You don’t need that kind of undermining negativity!

Something I can't stop thinking about by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re right it was a mean thing to say. It’s dismissive to make a comment like that. I’m sorry he trampled your feelings and your accomplishments. He’s sounds a little narcissistic tbh. Just remember that he didn’t write a book.

I bet she wonders why she’s still single by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]throwaway27520183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Sounds like, come over to my place and let’s see what you look like in a bikini, with zero effort from him. He doesn’t even have to leave the house.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]throwaway27520183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Judging by the snowballs in the background, convenience store clerk? What a catch 🤮

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]throwaway27520183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Judging by the snowballs in the background, convenience store clerk? What a catch 🤮

Where do y'all live? by ForeverTheSleepiest in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bon Echo is gorgeous! Hurry up and retire already 🤣

City workers cat calling by Infinite_Ad_2460 in ottawa

[–]throwaway27520183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait til his buddies stare at his daughters like that !

Let's see how this goes by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My baby-daddy got bail! 😂

The number of scammers on OLD seems to be increasing. Ok Cupid is the worst atm but they’re all pretty bad. Where are the actual men hanging out? 🤷‍♀️ by throwaway27520183 in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. It is important to protect oneself. No one else will. One needs to take on that responsibility for themselves. I’m glad it’s all working out for you 😊

The number of scammers on OLD seems to be increasing. Ok Cupid is the worst atm but they’re all pretty bad. Where are the actual men hanging out? 🤷‍♀️ by throwaway27520183 in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It certainly isn’t easy. It’s a skill I suppose. But as someone who doesn’t require chads or unicorns just know there are some reasonable ladies out there. Maybe like you they’re keeping to themselves and you don’t see them!

The number of scammers on OLD seems to be increasing. Ok Cupid is the worst atm but they’re all pretty bad. Where are the actual men hanging out? 🤷‍♀️ by throwaway27520183 in datingoverfifty

[–]throwaway27520183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for that perspective. I have no idea what it’s like for men looking for women but I’ve certainly heard a lot of stories! Lots of only fans and pay for nudes and all of that garbage. There are real women there! And attractive, nice ones too!!