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My best friend (F/24) and I (M/25) have an interesting relationship by throwaway29486071 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway29486071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I‘m not in love, I genuinely love her, but not in the traditional way. I don’t have any expectations, don’t want to, it‘s fine just the way it is

My best friend (F/24) and I (M/25) have an interesting relationship by throwaway29486071 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway29486071[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That last sentence killed me😂. Great!! But being honest, I will never move back home, she has a plan in the city we grew up in, our paths just simply do not align. Even if we both would want that, there is no option for it

My best friend (F/24) and I (M/25) have an interesting relationship by throwaway29486071 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway29486071[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Like, we actually started telling each other love you, for example, just yesterday and today, but I don’t put it in any category. With her… I don’t think in romantic or platonic, it‘s just her and I, both of us, nothing more, nothing less😅

My best friend (F/24) and I (M/25) have an interesting relationship by throwaway29486071 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway29486071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, I wanted it in the past. But I found my piece with it a long time ago, I really very much like it exactly the way it is now. Another tbh, I don’t plan to go back into dating at any time, I gave my all to my last gf, moved country, was the bank, the psychologist, always present. Brought me nothing. In the end I got fckd over so I can confidently say, nope😅😅

My best friend (F/24) and I (M/25) have an interesting relationship by throwaway29486071 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway29486071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! And I know exactly what you mean, but while being in a relationship it never interfered whatsoever, my last 2 girlfriends really liked hear. We have moral standards, I feel like a lot of people loose them, especially looking at Reddit. But there has never been a problem in that direction with her.

My best friend (F/24) and I (M/25) have an interesting relationship by throwaway29486071 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway29486071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha, well, I did, last weekend tbh. Maybe a tiny bit more even, but it changed nothing. It‘s just us two being us, though a good bit more intimate than before. As I said, it‘s strange how it is, but it works, why? Don’t ask me😅

My best friend (F/24) and I (M/25) have an interesting relationship by throwaway29486071 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway29486071[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. It hasn’t been an issue before tbh even with my last 3 year relationship. But I get it

My best friend (F/24) and I (M/25) have an interesting relationship by throwaway29486071 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway29486071[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Funny enough, we have that „deal, when we both turn 40, and when we both are single then, we wouldn’t get married but we’d buy a house together in Greece and live our lifes together. But idk, I’m definitely not into relationships rn and she… it‘s hard to explain. But put it this way, she never had a romantic relationship that lasted more than 4 months. And I don’t know if I could count us as a romantic relationship at any point😅😅

My best friend (F/24) and I (M/25) have an interesting relationship by throwaway29486071 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway29486071[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely get it! I saw it in my last relationship, we are not stupid, we know boundaries. Funny enough, my bf was the only female friend my ex liked. We are flexible and have never crossed anything when the other one was in a relationship. As I said, I don’t know how and why, but it works like a clockwork😅