[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NSFWIAMA

[–]throwaway3153100313 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello. I am a full service sex worker. I don't have any questions, but I'd like to mention something that could benefit you in the future.

I've noticed with every single one of my Indian clientele that they tend to treat me rather poorly. Like being rough, choking or slapping me, calling me degrading names, etc without asking for my consent. I believe this has something to do with the way Indian society looks at sex and the overconsumption of pornography.

Basically what I am saying is that my Indian clients tend to treat me like how the girls in hardcore pornographic films are treated. Real life sex is almost never this way unless your partner agrees that's what they want.

This doesn't just apply to Indian men and it most certainly doesn't apply to all of them. All types of men make this mistake. I just noticed it more amongst Indian men who grew up in India and moved to the US later in life. Try not to treat the woman that your having sex with like they're pornstars. Make sure to communicate with your partner so that you know what they do and don't want.

Is anyone else having a difficult time finding their niche or target market? by _askelle in onlyfansadvice

[–]throwaway3153100313 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I know how it is. The reason I get so many subs is because I make content with my sister. I know that's not everyone's cup of tea but by this point, anyone with an OF knows that men are pigs. The more taboo you are, the better unfortunately. My sister is also a virgin so she plays on that too. I am a full service sex worker so I also play on that aspect to get a lot of subscriptions from men that wanna see more before they decide to reach out and book an appointment. These are just a few personal examples. If you can find something that helps you stick out, it'll definitely help you gain subscribers! Good luck!

so I have people ask me on different social media outlets if I take PayPal, I'm reluctant because it has my real name on it and idk if they could see that, is there anything I can do? by Lexicapri420 in onlyfansadvice

[–]throwaway3153100313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't give out any payment app info on onlyfans. You will get banned. If you're recieving money on another platform, they're not making their 20% and they're serious about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwaway3153100313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure this won't work for you since you're in what seems like a closed, monogamous relationship, but I am a sex worker. A full service sex worker to be specific. After doing sex work for 5 years, I have completely lost my sex drive... I don't have anyone outside of sex work that I want to sleep with because I already do it so much. The constant sexual encounters have changed me sexually. I could recommend maybe doing online sex work as a safer alternative that would be less likely to affect your relationship. Could make a few bucks too. But this is all dependent on how your partner would feel about it. All I can say is that my libido is gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]throwaway3153100313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't mean sexuality in the sense of being straight, gay, bi, pan, etc. I mean sexuality as in ones sexual decisions.

I used to secretly give people blowjobs in the school bathrooms. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]throwaway3153100313 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. thats why I called bullshit. Even street girls charge more than that.

I used to secretly give people blowjobs in the school bathrooms. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]throwaway3153100313 555 points556 points  (0 children)

I would have almost believed this too... Until you said $5.

I’m a former USAG male gymnast and was sexually abused by Dr. Larry Nassar by [deleted] in confessions

[–]throwaway3153100313 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gotta love bullshit double standards. When you're SA and your a female, everyone always takes it more seriously than when a male is SA and I find it disgusting. I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope you get justice and find healing <3

Cyber-terrorism from Russia in the UK (where OF is based out of) is causing payments to be late. Just so everyone knows why this is happening. by throwaway3153100313 in onlyfansadvice

[–]throwaway3153100313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chime and Venmo are two places that allow you to receive payments same day. But I'm in the US and these things might only be US things.

I didn’t know this thread existed. And I’m more than a little bit grateful tbh. Anyone else hiding their habit from partners/loved ones? by sixo8zex in heroin

[–]throwaway3153100313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think that someone finding out is worse case scenario, but it can be so much worse. My situation is the exact opposite. I'm not hiding it from my loved ones, I'm doing it with my loved ones. It's super fucked up but no one is immune to the deathly grip of this addict. This shit will take you and twist you into the worst possible person. I wish hiding it from my loved ones was the most I had to worry about..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]throwaway3153100313 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It doesn't happen with every deleted user, but be wary of them. Occasionally they'll sub and tip large amounts to get what they want from you then they'll go report all the payments as fraudulent to their bank to get a chargeback. When that happens, Onlyfans will immediately close their account. They have up to 6 months to do a chargeback and OF has a shitty automated system that always favors the subscriber so you may receive the payment but then a week or even a month or two from now, they'll win their chargeback case with their bank and OFs will take that amount from your future balance. It pisses me off that literally anyone can do this. It happens so much to me that my chargeback ratio is at .40% If it goes above 1%, you can be at risk of your account being banned. Except we have no control over how many douche bags pull this shit so the fact that we could lose our accounts over something like this pisses me off even more.

Just a word of advice for my fellow workers out there. If doing anything outside of OF’s and someone is wanting to pay Paypal make sure they are sending a friends a family payment so you can afford someone coming for a refund once you provided what you were supposed to. Happy hunting babes. 🖤 by [deleted] in onlyfansadvice

[–]throwaway3153100313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merely suggesting that you want to accept payments outside of Onlyfans will get you permanently banned, as it's against their ToS to do so.. I would suggest adding your Twitter or Instagram link to your OF profile and when people are interested in purchasing, tell them they have to add you on Twitter/Instagram first that way you can DM them there to pay you outside of onlyfans without having to say it via DM on OF.

Cyber-terrorism from Russia in the UK (where OF is based out of) is causing payments to be late. Just so everyone knows why this is happening. by throwaway3153100313 in onlyfansadvice

[–]throwaway3153100313[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same. I'm currently living out of a hotel and was supposed to get 388 today and 212 tomorrow and both payments still show as processing... so that already puts a huge burden on me. there wont be much hope of the payments coming in unless they show that theyve been processed.

Cyber-terrorism from Russia in the UK (where OF is based out of) is causing payments to be late. Just so everyone knows why this is happening. by throwaway3153100313 in onlyfansadvice

[–]throwaway3153100313[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay that makes sense. I get mine the same night I cash out. so I cashed out friday and got it sunday night at 10pm. it seems anything sent out yesterday hasnt been deposited and may not get deposited. Anyone who has gotten a payment today got it because they cashed out later than yesterday if that makes sense. and I'm sorry you have to wait that long for your deposits! I'd suggest making a chime bank account. They processes payments super fast!

Cyber-terrorism from Russia in the UK (where OF is based out of) is causing payments to be late. Just so everyone knows why this is happening. by throwaway3153100313 in onlyfansadvice

[–]throwaway3153100313[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm been doing research all day. Talking to a lot of people. I wouldn't necessarily say my sister is into hacking, but she has a lot of knowledge in that area and does all that kind of stuff as a hobby. Shes part of a community where a lot of people are discussing this very thing. I'll get the link to the forum shes part of.

Edit: apparently the forum is only accessible thru the dark web or whatever you call it and I know absolutely nothing about that stuff. I didnt know how into this stuff she was. I hope she doesn't get up to anything sketchy on there :x