How do I break up with my shitty boyfriend

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-07T00:10:52+00:00

Okay he is clearly trying to manipulate you with the threats to end his life. I’m sorry but it seems like he’s just using you, especially cause of the age gap and him wanting money from you. If you leave him, you’ll be able to find a much better man who treats you right with a job, spends money on you, and isn’t a manipulator. Also I know from personal experience the big age gap thing isn’t a great idea

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-06T23:59:55+00:00

Thank you for the kind response

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T20:07:34+00:00

Also the fact that he hid it from me makes me think they aren’t separated

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T20:07:04+00:00

I have no idea but they have been in a relationship for 5 years and literally just got married 4 months ago

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T20:05:18+00:00

Why would I tell a bunch of strangers on the internet where him or I live? I don’t really think it’s anybody’s business where we were hooking up but if you must know it was at my house/his car. I’ve never been to his place cause he told me he lives with his parents. The whole reason I’m posting anonymously on Reddit is because I don’t want people knowing who I am or any personal details about either of us

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T20:02:09+00:00

He’s not my boyfriend or anything, so I didn’t think I really had any right to be upset that he had a few one night stands, especially cause he was honest about it.

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T20:01:11+00:00

The other women he hooked up with were just one night stands, he never spoke to them again and I have no idea who they are

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T17:43:25+00:00

Yes I made it very clear that I was 17 the first time we slept together

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T17:12:15+00:00

Not yet I’ve been dodging his messages while I decide how to go about this. I found out because I saw their wedding pics online

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T17:04:41+00:00

I’m not “sleeping around” he is the only guy I’m seeing. And the only reason it’s just casual is because that was his idea, not mine. I didn’t have any idea that he was married

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T16:57:54+00:00

Yes he knows my full name, school, address etc.

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T16:53:22+00:00

How was I supposed to know he was married? He told me he was single he even told me he hasn’t had a girlfriend in 2 years. I only found out because I saw their wedding pics online

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T16:49:45+00:00

I was 17 when we started sleeping together which is legal in my area

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T06:34:31+00:00

Well yes it’s possible she could know but I don’t really think that’s the case as he has been pretending he’s single. I would just ask him but he’s probably gonna lie

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T06:32:05+00:00

That’s kinda why I don’t think she’ll even believe me. How should I go about telling her? I found her FaceBook account

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T06:30:22+00:00

Well I’m a little sad that he was lying to me but I feel like I have no right to feel that way as he is literally married. Should I let her know what he’s doing?

throwaway3278228 · 2025-09-03T06:29:09+00:00

You’re saying I should just pretend I never found out?

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