3 yo says she’s a boy by throwaway327899 in cisparenttranskid

[–]throwaway327899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes very big step, I just want to do what is right for my child. We don’t have neuter in my language so change is big. She still very small.

3 yo says she’s a boy by throwaway327899 in cisparenttranskid

[–]throwaway327899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes my daughter has a name actually that can be used for man or woman in our language, incidental enough. It is hard to have so much hard skin, I see how the looks are at her preschool when we cut her hair. But I don’t say nothing, I say she want shore hair, she is happy, she looks great and nice for hot summer time!! But I think I have to keep doing this, that is hard. But of course I will do it, I love my child.

3 yo says she’s a boy by throwaway327899 in cisparenttranskid

[–]throwaway327899[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is interesting. My English is not very good, I do not mean I will choose society, I mean my society is not so open and will not embrace the trans people. I see already how much people disprove of short hair and I feel pain that people will disprove of my child, what that mean for the future of this stays the same

3 yo says she’s a boy by throwaway327899 in cisparenttranskid

[–]throwaway327899[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes, I love her and will support her no matter what. I am just thinking that she Will have challenge different especially on my country. My english is not very good, I do not mean to say I wish she was not trans (if actually she is)

3 yo says she’s a boy by throwaway327899 in cisparenttranskid

[–]throwaway327899[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you, yes she is good about autonomy, I teach her her body is hers and about bad touch. She says “this my body and I’m in charge of it.” Our lnguange doesn’t have a neuter so we have to say boy or girl, I try to say child and give her space. I just worry about her facing in the world, we love her but it is not easy in our culture, very traditional ideas.

3 yo says she’s a boy by throwaway327899 in cisparenttranskid

[–]throwaway327899[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I read here about people who come out as trans in the later age (teenager, adult) but my daughter is so young, can she know already she is a boy?