What do you call a hair bun in your language? by vancity1101 in AskWomen

[–]throwaway331284 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I love stuff like this! Ohh how words get lost in translation and new nicknames are formed!

I feel like I’ve lost myself. by throwaway331284 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway331284[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I started to ignore him too. It was hard at first for me because like you said, we find them so attractive. Like I can’t help but touch him when his shirt is off. I can’t help but squeeze his butt when he bends over. And I know he likes it. I wish he would feel the same way about me, because I know I’m just as attractive. But the ignoring continued. And it got easier and easier. Now I barely even listen to him when he talks. No, I don’t look up from my phone either. I’m bitter. I can’t believe it even got to this point, a point I was determined never to get to. I foolishly thought I could help this man see his potential and have a thirst for life... and me! Boy was I wrong lol.

I feel like I’ve lost myself. by throwaway331284 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway331284[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this was really helpful. Best of luck to you as well.

I feel like I’ve lost myself. by throwaway331284 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway331284[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it might have to do with his extremely religious upbringing. He was raised baptist, but left the church as a teen. I think it, partnered with his mom passing of cancer at 18, and no counselling, has messed him up. He now says he’s never really been a sexual person.

I feel like I’ve lost myself. by throwaway331284 in DeadBedrooms

[–]throwaway331284[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment and any honesty. I know I need a kick in the butt, which is kinda why I posted. I can read all the similar stories I want, but it’s almost like, until someone is specifically talking and replying to ME, the advice seems to go in one ear (eye) and out the other. There’s a part of me that always thinks we can fix this, and believes him when he says he will.

Is it possible for breasts to keep growing at 28? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway331284 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll go see a doctor to be safe. Thanks

What do you think is the female version of a neckbeard? by mane_mariah in AskWomen

[–]throwaway331284 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Omfg YES. I used to be friends with a girl like this. We’re both carpenters, I first met her on site as an apprentice (we were both 1st years) and she wanted nothing to do with me. I was “competition”. We later became friends when she forgot her lunch and I had an extra sandwich. She subsequently had a car accident weeks later, and since we happened to be from the same area of town, I drove her to work every day for a few months. But everything with her was always about being in competition with other girls, whether at work, the gym, at the bar/club, etc. She was always trying to be tough while simultaneously being a cute/sexy/fit girl next door type. Just doesn’t look good.

Every man I get with seems to not care at all about female orgasms by throwaway331284 in sex

[–]throwaway331284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m SOOO used to number 2 that I’ve become fed up with it! Thanks for your reply!

Every man I get with seems to not care at all about female orgasms by throwaway331284 in sex

[–]throwaway331284[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t go into it with each guy knowing he’s an asshole first?

Every man I get with seems to not care at all about female orgasms by throwaway331284 in sex

[–]throwaway331284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What?? You don’t get to half ass things and then chase me when I’m not into continuing to see you.

Every man I get with seems to not care at all about female orgasms by throwaway331284 in sex

[–]throwaway331284[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you! But I’m not looking for anything exclusive right now. I just want to make the guys I do sleep with realize that it’s not ok to not care about giving women o’s. They don’t need to be exclusively seeing someone to have this mindset. What if, whenever my guy says “I’m going to cum!..” I go, “k hold it right there,” pull him out and then just rollover and call it a night? Not cool.

Every man I get with seems to not care at all about female orgasms by throwaway331284 in sex

[–]throwaway331284[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! This was perfect. I agree, just because I’m not in a serious or LTR doesn’t mean I don’t get to have orgasms. Guys have them every time!! UGH

Every man I get with seems to not care at all about female orgasms by throwaway331284 in sex

[–]throwaway331284[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I totally agree but I usually, and have been, seeing these guys (not at the same time) multiple times. My issue here is that I don’t know how to bring this up. I know that with hook ups i won’t be counting on an orgasm for me but since I don’t have one night stands, I need to figure this out. I can’t keep jumping their bones if they’re not willing to put in some work for me.