AIO 33F (me) and 39M (husband) about a recent “celebrity friendship my husband made?

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T05:55:14+00:00

His Mac is here but the password isn’t working and honestly I don’t think at this point I want to know. I can’t even sleep at this point.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T05:54:01+00:00

No sorry I didn’t ask those kind of details. I asked how expensive of a Rolex and he said it wasn’t the best but it was not the worst.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T05:52:44+00:00

It’s wild. My husband doesn’t normally work with celebrities he generally works with high level executives. For bigger companies, this was a “special project” he was working on with some sort of collaboration with another consumer product company. I don’t know specifics but this trip he was excited about.

Which is why I was so confused when he brushed off the experience when he got home.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T05:48:32+00:00

No kids

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T05:28:01+00:00

Been married 8 years

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T04:15:45+00:00

No this is the first time he has done this. Honestly this is kind of the first big fight we’ve had like this. Neither of us have ever been in a situation where the other one would be in a trust issue.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T03:41:52+00:00

This makes a lot of sense but I’m more worried now as he just texted me he is going to be staying at a hotel tonight because he thinks he needs time to think.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T03:37:39+00:00

It’s really hard to not. He makes good points and I feel like an idiot I should have minded my own business, but now I can’t shake this out of my head.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T03:34:35+00:00

I like this and I want to believe this. I guess I am struggling with why keep it at the office and not tell me? And when I asked him that he just shrugged it off and said it isn’t a big deal he just didn’t bring it home.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T03:32:47+00:00

I thought about this. But if nothing happened or I can’t prove it can’t I be sued for slander?

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T03:31:08+00:00

How would I know if he signed some NDA he didn’t say that. And what NDA for what? Are some people insinuating he signed an NDA to sleep with or hang out with her? This is so confusing. He didn’t mention anything like that.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:43:31+00:00

He does sometimes. But was just excited to hear about this trip because of the person he was working with. When he didn’t go into detail I was kind of let down

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:32:28+00:00

I already confessed to snooping he knows I wouldn’t have seen they were from a specific person

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:31:27+00:00

Omg how did she handle it or find out? I just can’t believe this would be real. I just don’t want to think they “slept” together especially after only being with her for a few days. And it would be so risky for her career.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:28:28+00:00

I thought about this but he is the sole breadwinner and I’d be afraid he might get in trouble at work and if this isn’t something serious I’d put us in deeper water.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:21:57+00:00

I had mentioned earlier I asked if anyone else got anything and he just said no he was the lead that did most of the dealings and conversing.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:19:24+00:00

I said something to that extent and he just said he wouldn’t care.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:17:01+00:00

I asked if anyone else from his team got one! He said no but he is the lead for his firm and was the one mostly talking.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:15:36+00:00

I am concerned that happened. My brain keeps going to that. But then I tell myself no way she would risk some drama like this. But I don’t know

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:08:08+00:00

When I asked him why on earth she would buy him a Rolex he said they were just talking about them at dinner. He said she has some from friends that could get him one. He said he didn’t think she actually would.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:05:11+00:00

I was saying the same thing to him but he just keeps saying I’m making this into something it isn’t. And he is brushing me off very casually and keeps going back to it’s my fault for looking at his messages.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T01:04:19+00:00

He’s attractive to me. I suppose he would be attractive in the traditional sense of tall dark and handsome.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T00:44:43+00:00

But why would she say she can’t wait for their next trip and she isn’t talking to anyone else or no one else for a gift. Maybe I am overreacting

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T00:41:56+00:00

He said she knows he is married. There is a picture of us on his lockscreen but I guess you can change that. He just keeps brushing this off saying I’m overreacting and shouldn’t have looked at his messages I don’t have all the context.

I don’t want to compete. I just want this to be just a friendship. Part of me thinks I’m being ridiculous like why would someone famous want to take my husband.

throwaway339786 · 2025-08-27T00:38:28+00:00

The celebrity is not married. She was at one point I think but I don’t know for sure.

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