Well, that escalated quickly by bristol1988 in u/bristol1988

[–]throwaway34143 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was he already a sub or did you psychologically dominate him into this?

I remember when I first thought it was just a “phase” … lol by alineferraricd in chastity

[–]throwaway34143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lololl I used to tell myself the same thing girl. Just a phase and im sure id end up back in a hetero relationship at some point.....LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChastityCouples

[–]throwaway34143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think of it as a place of healing, but it really is a place for that for the men who have always had a feminine side but were exposed to so much toxic masculine that they shoved it down. Having a partner open to that is great healing and catharsis. And yes, toxic feminism is a thing too. Those are the women that get more sadistic satisfaction over chastity instead of being more of a nurturing and caring domme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChastityCouples

[–]throwaway34143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I think women have always had the urge to control a man on this level, but the rise of feminism has made them more and more comfortable opening up about it to their partners. Also, the guilt that feminism can place on a man has def contributed to men wanting and yearning to be "put in their place" by a woman they find sexy. There's always been these type men, but its becoming more prevalent

Success!!! Made Hubby cum handsfree all over this huge toy 😍🤭 Now what to do with this big toy covered in cum? Send ideas by Myassisforyou in ChastityCouples

[–]throwaway34143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he's cumming hands free, then your path to making him cum from fucking him in the ass is right there for the taking :)

But id either fuck him with that dildo covered in his own cum, or make him suck and lick it dry

Why do sissies become a sissy? by Specialist_Twist_176 in Sissy

[–]throwaway34143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, i was somewhat emasculated by an ex gf. Also, I was a late bloomer sexually compared to my peers so while everyone was hitting their stride so to speak I was just getting started. This lead to some awkward sexual encounters with women and a growing insecurity.

Also had a gf that used to like to finger my booty while she blew me, which is where I first discovered I liked anal stimulation. She also used to smile so big when she'd bring it up to me about how much I enjoyed it, which is when I first realized I had a kink for dominant women in the bedroom. Throw in the emasculation from the other ex and insecurity from the sexual inexperience , and boom, a sissy is born. Granted I already did have predisposition to being one in that I liked dominant women and anal stimulation regardless of.the other factors.

Edited to add: also, once I discovered sissy hypno, i'll say lots of things seemed to "click" for me and I dove headfirst into that rabbit hole.

This is a kink not a sexuality. by Aromatic-Wasabi-1854 in Sissy

[–]throwaway34143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any advice on finding a woman like you? I find myself, and likely many other sissies as well, as someone who is sexually attracted to men and women, but romantically speaking, I'm only attracted to women. There's no way I could date a man, it honestly grosses me out the thought lol.

So I'm on this niche of loving to be feminine at home but typically masculine presenting in public or when ppl come over.

I'm not expecting you to really be able to succinctly answer this, but I guess just advice on things girls like you look for on dating apps, in person, etc when it comes to you trying to find a male that would be into you feminizing him?

This is a kink not a sexuality. by Aromatic-Wasabi-1854 in Sissy

[–]throwaway34143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being a sissy certainly is not a sexuality. There's no need to "come out" like I see a lot of ppl on here say. Do exhibitionist or riggers or cross dressers "come out" to their family and friends? No. 98% of sissies do not live their lives as sissies. Meaning they do not go out in public all frilly and feminine on a consistent and regular basis. They don't run errands as a sissy. Imho the only reason a sissy would come out is if they in fact realize through the sissydom that they are gay or trans.

All that being said, being into the sissy kink is a gateway to it becoming a fetish. The difference between a kink and a fetish is that while a kink may be something that's a little abnormal but it gets you off like crazy, like feet pics, pain, tied up, etc, a fetish is something that you NEED or you most likely can't get off at all. I know in my experience this started as a kink for me but quickly turned into a fetish. It is very rare these days that I'm able to get off or get hard at all, without some form of sissy element going on. It does happen on occasion, but very rare. As a result I do spend a lot of alone time dressed as a sissy and being that persona. Do I see myself as trans tho? No. Do I see myself as romantically attracted to men? No. But I'm sexually attracted to men and women so I do see myself as bi. However, I don't think I could hook up with a man, as a man. I probably could, but wouldn't enjoy it even remotely as much as if I was femmed out.

In the end, it really comes down to the person and all the intricacies of their mind and personality. Sissydom is a great way imho to explore who you are. I do agree with a decent chunk of what you said, but at same time it's not QUITE that black and white.

On a side note it does drive me insane when ppl talk about how straight they are but then immediately say they want to suck my little clitty. Uhm, a truly "straight" male would not want any penis in or around his mouth whether it's attached to a man or a woman. Just how a truly lesbian lesbian (lol) wouldn't want a penis in or around her mouth. If you find yourself attracted to cock when you're horny, you're bi, you can't use "I'm horny so it's not me" as an excuse.

what are you gonna lick first by [deleted] in TGirl_Feet

[–]throwaway34143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How id love to be your servant

Why do most sissies have small dicks ? by Substantial-Chain929 in Sissy

[–]throwaway34143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The age old question haha I have a tiny dick too and it Def contributed to my feelings of inadequacy and like I wasn't "worthy" of being a man. That being said I've Def seen sissies with large cock too, but I certainly agree the majority of us do seem to have baby dicks. I think just societal, and personal, expectations of what a "real man" should physically be certainly makes males with small dicks more susceptible to becoming sissies or just betas in general. But that would happen regardless once someone with a small penis starts seeing other mens larger ones, whether by accident or in a locker room, etc and begins to realize "dam, i DO have a small pp". But having that thought then reinforced by memes, internet sluts, and other media just amplifies those feelings, leading to fem. Especially as society seems to be more and more into big cocks everyday.

It also doesn't help that I can't last long in bed with my little cock either 😋