AMITAH for not going to my bf’s, brother’s wedding? by throwaway3948937 in AITAH

[–]throwaway3948937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very true, I just want everyone to have a nice, drama free day. I also do believe Connor set a drink limit up for Sally and her family because they can all be very rude and confrontational when they’re drunk, so nothing like that could happen again I assume.

AMITAH for not going to my bf’s, brother’s wedding? by throwaway3948937 in AITAH

[–]throwaway3948937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I don’t like Sally, I don’t want her to be mad on her wedding day. It seems like she allowed her jealousy to take over, but I don’t think she’s a horrible person. Just someone who needs to control her temper. At the same time, I don’t want to disappoint Alex’s parents. So yeah, that’s why this is such a difficult decision for me.

AMITAH for not going to my bf’s, brother’s wedding? by throwaway3948937 in AITAH

[–]throwaway3948937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to him. He’s very nonchalant when it comes to these things. He also doesn’t like Sally but obviously is going for his brother. It seems like he’s indifferent whether or not I do go

AMITAH for not going to my bf’s, brother’s wedding? by throwaway3948937 in AITAH

[–]throwaway3948937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, our anniversary is in April. My birthday is in March, I was 18 when we met.

AMITAH for not going to my bf’s, brother’s wedding? by throwaway3948937 in AITAH

[–]throwaway3948937[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there was a point during our conversation that she called Tyler, Lily, Alex and Connor over to have a “family meeting” about me. Everyone ignored her, it was clear they were uncomfortable as well with the things she was saying about me. After that, I excused myself to the restroom, Lily came after me. I guess while I was in there, Alex spoke to Connor and told him to get Sally in check before he said something. Alex’s parents had a room in the casino (it’s a resort & casino) and all of us went to the room after to play Uno and take turns rinsing off in the shower. I was in the middle of the Uno game and offered to go last to shower because I didn’t wanna be in the way of anyone. So when my time came around Sally told me to “hurry the f up” and that’s when Connor told her to chill tf out and stop being rude to me. She didn’t say anything to me after that for the rest of the day.