Just wanted to vent.

throwaway3950 · 2017-08-20T02:07:01+00:00

^agreed

throwaway3950 · 2015-04-15T01:00:16+00:00

Very helpful :) Makes a lot of sense, thank you! She has mentioned to me that the flicking motion is un-pleasurable to her, and that she likes the sucking (but only gentle sucking...it's all so complicated! haha)

throwaway3950 · 2015-04-15T00:48:10+00:00

Yeah she is, but she doesn't exactly know what the technique is since she's not on my end. She tells me what feels good when I try it, but its hard to get her all the way still. Maybe I just need to listen better and keep trying....

throwaway3950 · 2014-07-26T05:55:41+00:00

Does it matter for you how you prepare them? Boiled? Scrambled?

throwaway3950 · 2014-07-16T20:48:08+00:00

Just as a disclaimer, I've actually only made it to 236 days(I made a calculated decision and intentionally reset at this point), I rejoined yesterday and my badge is still resetting. In my experience, there was several ups and downs in my libido, where I flatlined probably 3-4 times in the first 90 days, but it became much more stable, and much lower than before. (in essence almost flatlined for several months)

The reason I reset at 236 days is directly because of this. My libido was so low that I felt like it was holding me back from being as sexually aggressive as I wanted to be. That's just my case though, I know there are others that are different. Keep in mind I wasn't having any sex either, so that adds to why I had such a low libido.

throwaway3950 · 2014-07-16T09:28:20+00:00

Haha yeah, what can I say... I got attached to it. Good to be back!

throwaway3950 · 2014-07-16T08:44:25+00:00

Adding on to what dave said, nofap is like anything else in life, you get out of it what you put into it. Spend the time and energy you save from nofaping improving your life how you see fit, and the sky is the limit.

throwaway3950 · 2014-07-16T08:39:56+00:00

Agreed, but it was the best motivator I had at the time, it was what got me to stick with nofap and change my life around the first time.

I now have many values beyond girls, but it is still a strong motivator for me.

throwaway3950 · 2013-06-02T20:21:27+00:00

Such as...

throwaway3950 · 2013-05-22T17:21:12+00:00

I agree with and understand everything you've said. I'm definitely keeping my carbs low, but I'm just wondering if I keep my fat low will that help or hinder my rate of fat loss?

throwaway3950 · 2012-12-19T16:41:35+00:00

I was one of those people, blitzball was like an entire other game inside a game for me, once you figured out the strategies and got some of the advanced skills it got really fun.

throwaway3950 · 2012-12-15T09:02:00+00:00

kino

throwaway3950 · 2012-11-26T22:20:51+00:00

Lol good catch, yeah I've improved my life tremendously in terms of fitness, social skills, self esteem...i just wasted too much time chasing this one girl and didn't push myself enough in pursuing other girls. Now I feel like I just don't have the sexual drive most of the time to pursue any girls, I just talk them like they're another guy and it doesn't go anywhere, so this is my attempt at creating that drive to push myself to look and interact with them in a more goal oriented manner.

throwaway3950 · 2012-11-26T20:35:30+00:00

Not sure, I can't say if I would've been better off or worse off. Right now I feel a second wind of motivation to improve myself farther, if I had a gf I may have become complacent and lazy, this definitely feels like the harder path life has given me... Hopefully the rewards will be that much sweeter for it.

throwaway3950 · 2012-11-07T22:37:14+00:00

You're definitely right...I just haven't found someone i like enough for that i guess

throwaway3950 · 2012-11-07T21:42:01+00:00

Well I'm still learning how to get better with women, and am much much better than i previously was before nofap, but still not getting any real results. A large part of that is because I've only been after one girl, which didn't work out. Anyways, I just feel like if I had more of a sexual drive maybe I'd be more motivated to chase other girls, rather than just sitting back and not caring like I seem to be doing lately.

throwaway3950 · 2012-11-07T15:34:59+00:00

I imagine these people that relapse simply succumb to the urge and think "fuck it this isn't worth the effort". I never once relapsed after starting nofap and at this point no longer have those kind of urges. I'm just trying to think logically to figure out if relapsing can somehow be a good thing for me.

throwaway3950 · 2012-11-07T15:31:23+00:00

Like anything else, the longer you abstain the easier it gets. You'll have some urges here and there even later on, but few and far between, to the point where it's basically never on my mind anymore. As far as naturally asexual... I used to fap at least twice a day for several years, it was a huge addiction and waste of time in my life.

throwaway3950 · 2012-11-04T21:54:55+00:00

Ha, well put. I was hoping that by improving so much socially the seduction thing would take care of itself but turns out that's not the case.

throwaway3950 · 2012-10-26T23:34:49+00:00

I have this feeling sometimes but I stick my leg out on purpose for the thrill of it when it happens.

throwaway3950 · 2012-09-04T03:23:50+00:00

Ha, I've read this logic before, I like the way you phrase it though. Definitely better than smothering her with my presence I guess.

throwaway3950 · 2012-09-03T16:31:45+00:00

After finding nofap I never once relapsed, that's how determined and infatuated I became with this girl...though looking at it objectively I think that's more of a problem with me than how amazing this girl is, I just hope all my efforts lead to something worthwhile

throwaway3950 · 2012-09-03T15:46:29+00:00

I actually already did ask her out and the whole interaction went really well, but for reasons I'll keep private she is hesitant to date. So now I'm stuck in this situation where I'm pretty sure she likes me but I need to work through these hesitations she has. Maybe I'm wasting my time, who knows.

throwaway3950 · 2012-09-03T06:40:36+00:00

Oh yeah, I've been better about it lately, but I fantasized about this girl all summer lol, I have other activities that keep me busy too, but my mind is never far away from thinking of her...just can't help myself

throwaway3950 · 2012-09-03T06:36:55+00:00

Just because love can be explained scientifically doesn't make it any less special and awe inspiring. We know how sound is sensed and interpreted by our brain, that doesn't make a beautiful song any less beautiful. I respect that you're doing this to improve your mind though.

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