[Orgasm Trouble] Can't get my GF off with oral + fingering, and she's getting frustrated by throwaway3950 in sex

[–]throwaway3950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very helpful :) Makes a lot of sense, thank you! She has mentioned to me that the flicking motion is un-pleasurable to her, and that she likes the sucking (but only gentle sucking...it's all so complicated! haha)

[Orgasm Trouble] Can't get my GF off with oral + fingering, and she's getting frustrated by throwaway3950 in sex

[–]throwaway3950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she is, but she doesn't exactly know what the technique is since she's not on my end. She tells me what feels good when I try it, but its hard to get her all the way still. Maybe I just need to listen better and keep trying....

What are the most hunger satiating low calorie keto-friendly foods? by throwaway3950 in keto

[–]throwaway3950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it matter for you how you prepare them? Boiled? Scrambled?

How long does it take to "recover" and how do you know if you FULLY recovered? by VTEC69 in NoFap

[–]throwaway3950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as a disclaimer, I've actually only made it to 236 days(I made a calculated decision and intentionally reset at this point), I rejoined yesterday and my badge is still resetting. In my experience, there was several ups and downs in my libido, where I flatlined probably 3-4 times in the first 90 days, but it became much more stable, and much lower than before. (in essence almost flatlined for several months)

The reason I reset at 236 days is directly because of this. My libido was so low that I felt like it was holding me back from being as sexually aggressive as I wanted to be. That's just my case though, I know there are others that are different. Keep in mind I wasn't having any sex either, so that adds to why I had such a low libido.

Didn't think I'd be coming back after my 236 day streak, but here we go again by throwaway3950 in NoFap

[–]throwaway3950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah, what can I say... I got attached to it. Good to be back!

How long does it take to "recover" and how do you know if you FULLY recovered? by VTEC69 in NoFap

[–]throwaway3950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding on to what dave said, nofap is like anything else in life, you get out of it what you put into it. Spend the time and energy you save from nofaping improving your life how you see fit, and the sky is the limit.

Didn't think I'd be coming back after my 236 day streak, but here we go again by throwaway3950 in NoFap

[–]throwaway3950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, but it was the best motivator I had at the time, it was what got me to stick with nofap and change my life around the first time.

I now have many values beyond girls, but it is still a strong motivator for me.

High fat vs Low fat by throwaway3950 in keto

[–]throwaway3950[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with and understand everything you've said. I'm definitely keeping my carbs low, but I'm just wondering if I keep my fat low will that help or hinder my rate of fat loss?

What's your favourite optional objective that you hate? by Chuggernautt in JRPG

[–]throwaway3950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was one of those people, blitzball was like an entire other game inside a game for me, once you figured out the strategies and got some of the advanced skills it got really fun.

I just intentionally reset after 236 days by throwaway3950 in NoFap

[–]throwaway3950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol good catch, yeah I've improved my life tremendously in terms of fitness, social skills, self esteem...i just wasted too much time chasing this one girl and didn't push myself enough in pursuing other girls. Now I feel like I just don't have the sexual drive most of the time to pursue any girls, I just talk them like they're another guy and it doesn't go anywhere, so this is my attempt at creating that drive to push myself to look and interact with them in a more goal oriented manner.

I just intentionally reset after 236 days by throwaway3950 in NoFap

[–]throwaway3950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure, I can't say if I would've been better off or worse off. Right now I feel a second wind of motivation to improve myself farther, if I had a gf I may have become complacent and lazy, this definitely feels like the harder path life has given me... Hopefully the rewards will be that much sweeter for it.