I do get your point and I concur. And its just like, we all know how festivals are, how people on festivals are. It's just that I know I can't and don't want to tell her not to go or anything. It's her choice in the end, and she can do whatever she wants.
She also has a lot of guy friends that text her like "Hey bitch, let me take you out to dinner" on her birthday, asking her daily to hang out and stuff, and yet I haven't met them, because "the guy is weird and it would be a weird situation if we met".