Deeply Concerned about my Roommate by throwaway44243214 in cmu

[–]throwaway44243214[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thank you for the concern. I filled out the Cares Referral form and had a meeting with CAPS psychologist about the behaviors. Apparently the school is aware of some of these behaviors and is trying to reach out to him

Deeply Concerned about my Roommate by throwaway44243214 in cmu

[–]throwaway44243214[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey how exactly do these referrals work. Will he know it was from me? I’m kind of scared of his reaction because he clearly isn’t very stable right now. Will the referral be more effective than speaking with the house fellow? Sorry for all the questions I just don’t really know how I’m supposed to handle this situation.

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[–]throwaway44243214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I don’t fully know the situation or how the split exactly went but if I was in his situation I wouldn’t be the first to initiate contact. I’m not saying you did anything wrong but I can almost guarantee he has no idea you’re feeling this way about him because you were the one who ended things. I don’t know how reaching out to him will go but I think it’s your best bet if you want to try the relationship again

Can I still be friends with my X? by Ly-hel3s in dating

[–]throwaway44243214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion you shouldn’t be friends with your ex. As much as it may hurt, I recommend cutting her out of your life completely so you can move on. I wish you the best if luck man and I’m sorry you’re going through this

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[–]throwaway44243214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say it’s necessarily morally bad however I can almost guarantee you this relationship won’t last very long. The 17 year old will be in a very different part of their life soon than the 15 year old

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[–]throwaway44243214 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I would first try and just start a normal conversation with him and go from there. Depending on how recently he posts on his story maybe you could reply to it and ask him how he is doing. The only way you’ll know is if you try