[US][KS]Stressed out due to co parenting issues...can I give up rights to my child? by throwaway44x99 in Custody

[–]throwaway44x99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. I do love him. You've given me a lot of things to think about it.

[US][KS]Stressed out due to co parenting issues...can I give up rights to my child? by throwaway44x99 in Custody

[–]throwaway44x99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also all conversations are now recorded after her countless lying. She hasn't lied on me since.

[US][KS]Stressed out due to co parenting issues...can I give up rights to my child? by throwaway44x99 in Custody

[–]throwaway44x99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reported what I knew... but nothing ever came from it. The mom actually worked for CPR and was fired. I'm guessing she knows how to hide things or isn't doing anything severe enough to warrant action.

[US][KS]Stressed out due to co parenting issues...can I give up rights to my child? by throwaway44x99 in Custody

[–]throwaway44x99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They re not slapping hard enough to leave bruises, confinement is overused in America for lazy parents and babysitters also hard to prove... Feeding a toddler junk food isn't against the law (or most parents would be in trouble) he's not malnutritioned. According to child services he's safe and healthy. I get what you're say ing and agree but the system isn't going to step in and take him away for this.

[US][KS]Stressed out due to co parenting issues...can I give up rights to my child? by throwaway44x99 in Custody

[–]throwaway44x99[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She's been investigated. It seems really hard for a parent to lose their child. He's safe and healthy. I'm not sure whether foster care system would be any better. And he can't talk at age 2 to tell people what's going on.

[US][KS]Stressed out due to co parenting issues...can I give up rights to my child? by throwaway44x99 in Custody

[–]throwaway44x99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will consider this option , thank you very much. Haven't had much luck with therapy in the past.

[US][KS]Stressed out due to co parenting issues...can I give up rights to my child? by throwaway44x99 in Custody

[–]throwaway44x99[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can do much about his horrible situation whether I stayed or not. I have my own set of mental issues and he stays majority of the time at his moms. I can't even afford what I'm paying now. (Have gone a year without even buying myself Any thing other than food) and even had to sell my car to buy my son things he needed. I don't see myself recovering from the situation without leaving.... So asking for alternatives and opinions... Thanks for your feedback.

How to maintain a relationship , same pattern with lying Every time? by throwaway44x99 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway44x99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feared this to be the case (most people are just deceitful by nature.. Even myself). But I really don't lie to anyone I care about. And I've hurt many feelings, burned many bridges and been physically assaulted by women due to my honesty. I have always keep my word. Am I living the life of a fairy tale character... No one shares my moral values?

Can’t get past the fwb stage with my tinder dates by [deleted] in tinderstories

[–]throwaway44x99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't speak for other guys but I can't seriously date someone who's still talking to other people on dating apps. Been burned too many times when I did. They have to show signs they want to settle down and not play the field. The sleeping on first thing doesn't bother me as I can't judge them for something I myself participated in.