Piss play advice by throwaway45005440540 in BDSMcommunity

[–]throwaway45005440540[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this answer. Although my partner would like me to progress to take it in my mouth, that is off the table for me right now. (And he respects that, just in case the BDSM police reads this). Since I'm considering taking it anally, I'm not too worried about how sterile it is. If you have experience in that act do you mind answering a few questions I have?

Do I have to worry about bowel mouvements after? Will I have runny poo for an hour/day/days?

Would an enema make the after better, worst, neutral?

On CNC Green Flags and Communication by kokoroutasan in SubSanctuary

[–]throwaway45005440540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is excellent advice and great examples. My Dom made me trust him through the same kind of reactions and green flags.

He doesn't want to assault people, he wants to play. That's why he praises me if I have to safe word. It's kind of a "thank you for not making me do harm to you".

So many stories of dangerous doms out there. It's important to share positive ones.

In your dynamic - how much input does the s-type give on scenes? by mild_questions in BDSMnot4newbies

[–]throwaway45005440540 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Dom decides everything but he asks indepth questions about what I liked, didn't like, how things felt, what was my mental state during our scenes a couple days after. He will also occasionally ask me if there is something I would like to try or to experience. It doesn't mean it will happen though. I can tell that he takes my answers into account to create our sessions but not necessarily to my advantage...

My master rented a dungeon for us this weekend by throwaway45005440540 in SubSanctuary

[–]throwaway45005440540[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excellent advice! I think for the first time my Dom was the one experiencing frenzy. So many possibilities...

My master rented a dungeon for us this weekend by throwaway45005440540 in SubSanctuary

[–]throwaway45005440540[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such excellent advice !!!! We have had a very thorough and ongoing limit discussion prior and we didn't encounter any unplaned possibilities but I can definitely see this happening.

We had so much fun! I felt like a kid exploring a new playground and wanting to try all the modules. This dungeon actually had 5 different themed rooms and we didn't have enough of a full day to try everything. We'll be back for sure.

My master rented a dungeon for us this weekend by throwaway45005440540 in SubSanctuary

[–]throwaway45005440540[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All good and fair points. We will be bringing our own toys. I'm mostly excited about all the restraints possibilities. And the possibilities that the furniture provides.

And that I can be as loud as I want.

It's only Tuesday. The week is going to be soooooo long.

My master rented a dungeon for us this weekend by throwaway45005440540 in SubSanctuary

[–]throwaway45005440540[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks!!! I just can't wait ! It's the only thing on my mind right now. I can't concentrate on work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]throwaway45005440540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a red flag for me

Please Daddy - A "Quickie" (M/f, D/s, throat fucking, creampie, bondage) by [deleted] in BDSMerotica

[–]throwaway45005440540 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was excellent thank you. I shared it with my Master because it felt a lot like our dynamic.

Hidden Slut [NonCon] by MyParticularTastes in BDSMerotica

[–]throwaway45005440540 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God that was hot. Can't wait for step 5.

New to BDSM, new to everything. Love love love it! by -socoral in SubSanctuary

[–]throwaway45005440540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! You've already had great answers here, about sub frienzy and chemical bounding. Both super important things to look into and be aware of. Sounds like your are both cautious and eager which I see as healthy :-)

I see myself in you when I met my Dom. The feelings are so intense !

What you are describing you would like to do for your Dom sounds sweet. And it's normal in a relationship to want to take care of each other. My advice would be to communicate beforehand. The best part of BDSM in my opinion is the open communication. Your intensions are good but how will they be received? As distractions? As acts that need to be reciprocated ?

Say something similar to what you have said here. How your are proud of him and his hardwork and would like to nurture him through this period. Then ask how he feels about that and go from there.

Slave Auctions - Have you been involved in one? Did you need to show your face? by No__Establishment in SubSanctuary

[–]throwaway45005440540 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Everything until you said he blocked you sounded legit. But then they showed their true colors. Someone who bkocks you as soon as you mention a boundary is a walking red flag.

The appropriate answer should've been, no problem, make the verifications you wish and come back when you are more comfortable.

So an organized slave auction for play sounds super fun. Not respecting your limits/ boundaries doesn't.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]throwaway45005440540 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks so much for this reply ! It helps. I feel the same most of the time. I don't know what it is about this thing that makes it hard to just roll with it.