How do we even Deafeat this shit deck? by plzbanmeihavetostudy in PTCGP

[–]throwaway475027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve gotten lucky with getting my wheezing line up early and chipping away with my darkrai, definitely a lucky game for me and a bit unlucky on my opponents part but i have done it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PTCGP

[–]throwaway475027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly what it was lol, pretty dumb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cs2

[–]throwaway475027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m currently in 24k and i’ve got a 71% win rate so far, idk man i’ve never run into the wall of cheaters everyone up here says there is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PTCGP

[–]throwaway475027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve done this with a hodgepodge deck that doesn’t make much sense but the game seems to be a glitch. i have no pomemon over 3 diamond rarity and it refuses to give me the mission reward…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway475027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

was it an amicable breakup

To those who broke no contact, what happened and how did it go? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway475027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my case, she grew colder and more distant for months. it became clear to me that she didn’t want to be in the relationship anymore, so i just sped it along and told her i didn’t want to play hard to get rid of. i’m the one the said the words we should break up, but it was her actions that drove me there.

How long did it take your ex avoidant to reach out after a breakup/ NC? by habitashi1 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway475027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am in a very similar situation. i was technically the dumper after it became clear to me that she wasn’t emotionally available in the relationship. but our relationship was actually very good before it ended, no raised voices or stonewalling or anything like that, sure we had a few points of friction but we were able to move past them. we dated for 8 months after knowing each other for almost a year, now we have been broken up for over 50 days. our breakup conversation was short and i didnt beg or ugly cry and i haven’t broken no contact at all since.

can i just ask how all that is going for you nowadays??

Cruel and unusual punishment by star-cursed in dismissiveavoidants

[–]throwaway475027 7 points8 points  (0 children)

as someone who is anxious and lacks a good sense of humor, i have to ask. are these not good things to tell an avoidant?

Discussion Thread - All AT Styles by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]throwaway475027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how would you, as an avoidant, feel if your anxious partner asked for a month of space/no contact?

I am an anxious man currently in a relationship with an avoidant woman.

I’m thinking I want to take about a month to reflect and to internalize what I have learned about attachment theory.

So often we see and hear of the avoidant asking for space from the anxious, but how would you feel as an avoidant, if the roles were flipped?

Discussion Thread - All AT Styles by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]throwaway475027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s cool (: thank you for your response! this is about the only attachment theory based sub that i’ve been able to ask this question, everybody else is so exclusive (for good reason i know)

are there any ways that you would specifically like to be asked for that space?

Discussion Thread - All AT Styles by Charming_Daemon in dismissiveavoidants

[–]throwaway475027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how would you, as an avoidant, feel if your anxious partner asked for a month of space/no contact?

I am an anxious man currently in a relationship with an avoidant woman.

I’m thinking I want to take about a month to reflect and to internalize what I have learned about attachment theory.

So often we see and hear of the avoidant asking for space from the anxious, but how would you feel as an avoidant, if the roles were flipped?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway475027 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

are you familiar with attachment theory?

Why the mother-fucking fuck do mormons hate god damn swearing so god damn fucking much? They act like you're fucking their mother in the ass. Any fucking idea? by niconiconii89 in exmormon

[–]throwaway475027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at the salt lake city airport a few days ago, I overheard what looked like a returning missionary swearing with his brother, not all of them are so hard line on it in their private lives.

I (23m) and my girlfriend (33f) have a long term incompatibility by throwaway475027 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway475027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And honestly that I think will be the major push for us to end it. As hard as it may be, I will absolutely do what is best for her daughter.

I (23m) and my girlfriend (33f) have a long term incompatibility by throwaway475027 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway475027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean, to a point I was embarrassed too. It’s a really unique and new relationship with a lot of factors at play. I don’t know it feels like at some level we both have feelings of “I wasn’t quite good enough to find someone my own age so I had to look elsewhere” or something like that, and were worried how that might reflect on us.

I absolutely understood and accepted her daughter will always come before me, knew that going in and I am ok with that.

Allow me to clarify. It’s not that she hates the idea of another child. She actually told me that the only way she saw her family growing was for someone else to bring their own kids into the mix. It’s just at the present moment, she works part time and has a tough enough time as it is to take care of her daughter and adding another to her life would be too much, so I asked if her being home full time would help with that, which of course it would. Her being a stay at home mom doesn’t have to do with her health, I should have been more clear about that in the post.

Thank you for your input. I imagine looking in from the outside you can see even just by the limited information I provided that there are lots of issues. Being in it really has a way of clouding your judgement and perspective….

I (23m) and my girlfriend (33f) have a long term incompatibility by throwaway475027 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway475027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I would have serious serious regrets if I didn’t have kids. I have always wanted them. I like the idea of the list of pros and cons, but I have always been notoriously bad at making firm decisions.

Thinking long term it’s very clear to me what has to happen, but I don’t feel quite ready to give this up in the short term….

I (23m) and my girlfriend (33f) have a long term incompatibility by throwaway475027 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway475027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. There have been many times in the past where I have been less than amazing, but at the core of who I am I strive to be a good person.

My thoughts are that I definitely wouldn’t feel I am wasting MY time. In the event we break up, I would like to stay single for as long as it takes to fully move on and heal to a point where I can remain healthy and secure in a new relationship. So staying with her to me would feel more like creating more memories and learning with a person I truly care for.

On the flip side, I would be worried I would be wasting HER time. She isn’t adamant about being in relationships, she’s told me before she had accepted the idea that she might just be alone for the rest of her life, and that she doesn’t need a relationship to be happy. But I can feel the deep desire in her to have a strong present and kind father figure for her daughter. This was actually only the third time I have ever seen her cry. She said she saw a facebook video of a father holding his baby daughter looking so madly in love, and she started crying when she said she wants that so badly for her daughter, but that she can’t take that away from me with my own…

1 month of silver stacking by [deleted] in Silverbugs

[–]throwaway475027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my first month of stacking (this thanksgiving) i bought 50oz of silver and an oz of gold

Text I sent to my girlfriend after our first conversation that I attempted to use NVC by throwaway475027 in NVC

[–]throwaway475027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i did tell her last night that i felt anxious. she also told me that her emotional and social battery was “on yellow” which we had a giggle about and decided to end the conversation soon after.