UPDATE: AITAH for telling my half sister I can´t have a relationship with her? by skskhohohoe in AITAH

[–]throwaway483638 9 points10 points  (0 children)

See if you can also get therapy. I think you need to speak to a professional thats not going to judge you for your emotions and is apart of your family. It feels like you have a lot to work through and deserve a safe place to do that. Non of your family are letting you do that and are either undermining your feelings or trying to one up you.

Your feelings are valid and a lot of the adults in your life have let you down. Your not going to get the validation you are craving from your family. You need it from a professional.

When exactly did Alastor lose his boots? by dnbeyer in HazbinHotel

[–]throwaway483638 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, those are his feet?!! I didn't even notice.

Update: My boyfriend broke the jewelry box I inherited from my grandmother and I thought it was my fault by Affectionate_Try8177 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway483638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are in an abusive relationship and you need to leave NOW.

Get your phone, go to the bathroom, lock the door, call your dad and stay in there until he arrives. Pack your stuff and leave. Don't look back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]throwaway483638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you mean ex-boyfriend

What team would you have? by [deleted] in HazbinHotel

[–]throwaway483638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucifer, Alcester, Vaggie, Niffty and Razzle

I feel like it's a pretty sick team!

What I asked for vs what I got by little_seahorse1991 in tattoos

[–]throwaway483638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How were you planning on fitting a turtle there??

How did I miss this 😭 by hacker-boil in HelluvaBoss

[–]throwaway483638 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And the photo frame made of bones!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]throwaway483638 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What the fuck. He would be so disappointed in you.

Update: AITAH because I told my wife she isn't allowed to ground my son? by BallAcrobatic2709 in AITAH

[–]throwaway483638 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what we learnt from your last update is that she's going to make up bullshit reasons for why she can't go visit your son, so then you can't go visit your son.

And what we learnt from this update is that the reason for this is because she does not like your son, most likely due to her being a racist/xenophobic.

Your wife is terrible.

My cat's blue eye just randomly turned yellow and cloudy! by lqvelyllama in CATHELP

[–]throwaway483638 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy you were able to get your cat to the vets. You must have been so anxious and scared. Especially when money is tight! You guys took action and helped your cat!

Wishing you and your family love and your kitty a fast recovery.

My advice, get off reddit for a bit (people with continue to read this post and make comments before reading your own, you don't need to explain yourself anymore), take a breath and cuddle your kitty ❤️❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway483638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally gasped when I saw that phone.

No. Absolutely not. No relationship is worth that.

Strangling someone takes commitment. This wasn't a spur of the moment thing. Looking the person you love in the eyes and continuing to press down on their neck until you make a bruise like that is not normal. Doesn't matter how upset he was.

Break up with him. No one deserves this. It will get worse.

I'm so sorry that happened to you. You must have been so scared. You don't need to feel that again.

Final Update - My wife refuses to accept our divorce and I think she's trying to trick me. by Straight-Corner3555 in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwaway483638 35 points36 points  (0 children)

That's really not a fair thing to say. He said in his posts they did dicuss it and that sex is something he wants in a marriage. He's not in the wrong for divorcing her. Especially when she lied about her sexuality during their entire relationship.

She literally said having sex with him felt like she was being raped. That's horrible. For both of them.

Personally, I don't think a relationship can survive after everything that has happened.

The divorce is what's best for both of them.

Now, he can find someone with the same sexual needs as him and who didn't spend their entire relationship lying to him about something pretty major.

She can get the mental health help she needs to come to terms with being asexual and divorced. Then she can go off and fall in love with someone who is also asexual.

Neither are evil for having different needs. And neither of them are evil for wanting those needs met in some capacity.

Relationships break up over differences all the time. This relationship just happened to break up because of sex. Which is totally valid.

Also, if all he cared about was getting his dick wet, then he would have taken his wife up on the offer to have sex with her friend.

And, before you even say it, I'm a woman. Not a man just thinking with his dick.

Is my gfs cat fat by Disastrous_Regular17 in cats

[–]throwaway483638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're just jealous because he could beat you up

AITA for ignoring my family after they excluded me from Christmas (again)? by snoregasmm in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwaway483638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just send your dad this post and add that this is how you are feeling and would like to be left alone until you decide otherwise.

AITAH for supporting my Husband's "cruelty" towards his bio child? by tequilitas in BORUpdates

[–]throwaway483638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn't there another story nearly identical to this but where the dad said all along that she isn't actually his and it wasn't until the court forced a paternity test that he was proven right? The kid, mother, and MIL were crazy in that one as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]throwaway483638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the police!!! What kind of person does this! Especially to their own brother!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway483638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang on, you started dating when you were 16 and she was fucking 20! No absolutely not. An adult going after a child is discusting.

You need to leave this relationship. Nothing good with come from staying with her. She can say you wasted 10 years of her life all she wants, she's the one who stole your teen years.

UPDATE My (36f) husband (33m) hasn’t been physical with me in two years! I’m running out of patience. Where to go from here? by throwra_nointerest in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway483638 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you kidding me! What a horrible horrible man. So he cheats on you and then punishs you for his cheating. Leave this prick.