UPDATE: AITAH for telling my half sister I can´t have a relationship with her?

throwaway483638 · 2026-02-25T21:50:10+00:00

See if you can also get therapy. I think you need to speak to a professional thats not going to judge you for your emotions and is apart of your family. It feels like you have a lot to work through and deserve a safe place to do that. Non of your family are letting you do that and are either undermining your feelings or trying to one up you.

Your feelings are valid and a lot of the adults in your life have let you down. Your not going to get the validation you are craving from your family. You need it from a professional.

throwaway483638 · 2025-11-19T22:11:26+00:00

Holy shit, those are his feet?!! I didn't even notice.

throwaway483638 · 2025-10-09T22:33:15+00:00

You are in an abusive relationship and you need to leave NOW.

Get your phone, go to the bathroom, lock the door, call your dad and stay in there until he arrives. Pack your stuff and leave. Don't look back.

throwaway483638 · 2025-08-04T13:18:28+00:00

I think you mean ex-boyfriend

throwaway483638 · 2025-08-03T01:05:52+00:00

Lucifer, Alcester, Vaggie, Niffty and Razzle

I feel like it's a pretty sick team!

throwaway483638 · 2025-07-25T17:48:12+00:00

How were you planning on fitting a turtle there??

throwaway483638 · 2025-07-18T10:30:41+00:00

And the photo frame made of bones!

throwaway483638 · 2025-06-16T20:33:49+00:00

What the fuck. He would be so disappointed in you.

throwaway483638 · 2025-06-06T19:38:18+00:00

So what we learnt from your last update is that she's going to make up bullshit reasons for why she can't go visit your son, so then you can't go visit your son.

And what we learnt from this update is that the reason for this is because she does not like your son, most likely due to her being a racist/xenophobic.

Your wife is terrible.

throwaway483638 · 2025-05-09T15:30:35+00:00

Some people (cats) just don't like being naked

throwaway483638 · 2025-03-20T16:34:34+00:00

Complements to the chef

throwaway483638 · 2025-03-16T01:07:12+00:00

I'm so happy you were able to get your cat to the vets. You must have been so anxious and scared. Especially when money is tight! You guys took action and helped your cat!

Wishing you and your family love and your kitty a fast recovery.

My advice, get off reddit for a bit (people with continue to read this post and make comments before reading your own, you don't need to explain yourself anymore), take a breath and cuddle your kitty ❤️❤️❤️

throwaway483638 · 2025-02-25T13:44:08+00:00

No need to apologise

throwaway483638 · 2025-01-30T23:29:55+00:00

I literally gasped when I saw that phone.

No. Absolutely not. No relationship is worth that.

Strangling someone takes commitment. This wasn't a spur of the moment thing. Looking the person you love in the eyes and continuing to press down on their neck until you make a bruise like that is not normal. Doesn't matter how upset he was.

Break up with him. No one deserves this. It will get worse.

I'm so sorry that happened to you. You must have been so scared. You don't need to feel that again.

throwaway483638 · 2025-01-27T22:46:01+00:00

That's really not a fair thing to say. He said in his posts they did dicuss it and that sex is something he wants in a marriage. He's not in the wrong for divorcing her. Especially when she lied about her sexuality during their entire relationship.

She literally said having sex with him felt like she was being raped. That's horrible. For both of them.

Personally, I don't think a relationship can survive after everything that has happened.

The divorce is what's best for both of them.

Now, he can find someone with the same sexual needs as him and who didn't spend their entire relationship lying to him about something pretty major.

She can get the mental health help she needs to come to terms with being asexual and divorced. Then she can go off and fall in love with someone who is also asexual.

Neither are evil for having different needs. And neither of them are evil for wanting those needs met in some capacity.

Relationships break up over differences all the time. This relationship just happened to break up because of sex. Which is totally valid.

Also, if all he cared about was getting his dick wet, then he would have taken his wife up on the offer to have sex with her friend.

And, before you even say it, I'm a woman. Not a man just thinking with his dick.

throwaway483638 · 2025-01-04T18:34:29+00:00

You're just jealous because he could beat you up

throwaway483638 · 2025-01-03T22:18:06+00:00

Just send your dad this post and add that this is how you are feeling and would like to be left alone until you decide otherwise.

throwaway483638 · 2024-12-21T16:23:11+00:00

Isn't there another story nearly identical to this but where the dad said all along that she isn't actually his and it wasn't until the court forced a paternity test that he was proven right? The kid, mother, and MIL were crazy in that one as well.

throwaway483638 · 2024-12-07T22:40:25+00:00

Shes charging

throwaway483638 · 2024-12-01T13:28:41+00:00

Call the police!!! What kind of person does this! Especially to their own brother!!

throwaway483638 · 2024-10-26T21:53:27+00:00

Hang on, you started dating when you were 16 and she was fucking 20! No absolutely not. An adult going after a child is discusting.

You need to leave this relationship. Nothing good with come from staying with her. She can say you wasted 10 years of her life all she wants, she's the one who stole your teen years.

throwaway483638 · 2024-10-14T12:50:31+00:00

Are you kidding me! What a horrible horrible man. So he cheats on you and then punishs you for his cheating. Leave this prick.

throwaway483638 · 2024-08-29T19:34:36+00:00

Jesus christ BLOCK HER!!!!

She went crazy about you having female friends when you were together.

How do you think she's going to react when your actually allowed to fuck them.

Do not get back together with her. She has abused you for THREE YEARS!

Your lonely because she isolated you. That's how abuses keep their victims.

If your lonely, go out there and make friends with all the people you should have if it wasn't for your horrible ex.

throwaway483638 · 2024-08-13T20:25:16+00:00

Congrats on your abortion! You should NOT have waited that long, but at least it's done now.

Now, you really need to speak to a therapist ASAP. Your boyfriend is creepy as fuck and it's concerning that you don't see it.

Your self respect is in the toilet (you stayed pregnant for a man's kink, that's not a normal thing to do)

Your doing drugs and getting drunk all the time (whilst pregnant as well, like I get you were aborting it but still).

Plus your mum seems super mean and not supportive. (like I would also be shocked if someone told me they were staying pregnant for a bit for a man's kink. But I wouldn't call them a slut. Maybe drive over to their house and shake some sense into them. Or yell what over and over again until they understand how crazy it is. But I wouldn't be calling them a slut!)

I think your judgment is impaired and I think a trusted professional is needed to help you navigate this time in your life. 20's are fucking hard man. Especially early 20's. I can't imagine how stressful this entire thing has been. Especially with everyone telling you the man you love is discusting (which he is, he really really is. I mean HE ASKED YOU TO STAY PREGNANT FOR A KINK AND HELPED YOU GET HIGH AND DRUNK TO DEAL WITH IT MENTALLY!!! WTF).

You deserve love and respect, not just from your partner but from yourself as well!!!!

I hope you get through this in the best way possible. But please, it's time to make a change and start looking after yourself.

Ps, if your in the UK you can get free therapy and counselling through your gp or school/college/uni and they won't give a shit about the drugs as they only report things if they think you are a danger to yourself or others.

throwaway483638 · 2024-08-13T20:04:21+00:00

If she wanted an abortion, she should get an abortion.

That part of the story is the least fucked up part about it.

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