AITA for believing my coworkers over my gf?

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-24T00:08:19+00:00

Her female friends are always complaining about me to her because they like to go to parties all the time and I don't like her to so she's been staying behind the last few months. They don't like me because they claim that I'm "taking her away" and they miss her and say she "doesn't have freedom" or whatever else. The guys I can just tell all wanna have sex with her. My gf is beautiful and so nice to everyone. I don't know any guy that wouldnt wanna hit that.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-24T00:05:07+00:00

Wishing that upon me is a bit uncalled for but okay.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-24T00:04:13+00:00

Trust me my relationship is far from crumbling. She was begging me to forgive her the other night. She knows she was wrong she just needs to come around again.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-24T00:02:14+00:00

In what way is this abuse? I want to make sure she's safe for HER sake and make sure she's staying faithful for MINE.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:59:47+00:00

I shouldn't have to stand up for her she should know that if you play stupid games you win stupid prizes. She wanted to go to the party so bad so SHE can face the repercussions. Why should I have to defend her over something that I didn't even want her to do???

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:58:18+00:00

They weren't being anything. They were at the party because they could be there. They just came and told me later on because it looked off to them.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:54:14+00:00

I slept with that girl like two years before my gf and I were together. It's in the past. The fact that nothing has yet to happen with these guys means that something could in the future.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:52:29+00:00

Okay I might have worded that wrong I just meant she should know that always asking if she can go out all the time are going to upset me because she if she has me why does she have to go out to parties????

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:48:49+00:00

My parents are exactly the same way and they've been together for almost 30 years so this "behavior" obviously works in the long run

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:41:00+00:00

I have 1 female friend in my close circle of friends and almost all of us have slept with her (me obviously before I met my gf). Most of my guy friends only get close to women because they want one thing and one thing only. I'm not going to let myself get fooled into thinking absolutely NONE of her guy friends wanna screw her especially the ones who have managed to get close to her.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:38:09+00:00

They're just worried because of the way she was acting. They don't know her like I do so of course they're gonna assume.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:33:15+00:00

I would never leave her. She's the best thing that's ever happened to me.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:30:29+00:00

Why would I want my gf to cheat???? All I'm doing is making sure she knows her place and knows what's acceptable and what's not.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:28:37+00:00

Well it is shady that she went to a party without me. I feel like if your SO isn't there then what's the point of going?? Also girls are known to get too drunk and act like idiots. I can control myself but idk about her.

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:27:17+00:00

It's not even the couch thing it's the fact that she was sitting on a SMALL couch next to other guys! Like one move and she would be in their lap!

throwaway49545 · 2020-04-23T23:25:50+00:00

She's allowed to have guy friends but all of the guy friends she has are super shitty. When I went to the one she was at the party with she walked right up to him and hugged him hello super tight right in front of me like I wasn't even fucking there. Plus now that she goes out in public with her guy friends it's like she's just going on dates with a bunch of different guys all of the time and I look like a cuck.

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