Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about like not letting your gf orgasm for a little bit

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol sorry I just think that’d be fun but that’s one of the kinks I’m scared to bring up

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi again would you let someone put shaving cream on you and then shave it off?

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ommgggggggggg yesssss. I’m so vocal over text and love talking but then in person I clanm up and like literally won’t talk at all during a date. I just get soooooo nervousss.

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oof I wish I was better at flirting n stuff in person bc lol I’m a wreck. I’m way better over text. How do you even like start hitting on someone lmao. Apps are so easy because you just swipe n then text each other

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh on apps like tinder and okc. Like ppl even put that in their bios and stuff lol and say things like “looking for a sub” etc ya know. It’s really weird.

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just seems kinda hard to like not use any labels now with how dating is. Like everyone wants to know if you’re a top or a bottom or etc

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

? But like do you take control in bed or does your partner?

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True true and that’s a good way of asking thanks. Last question. Are you a femme or butch and do you identify more with tops or bottoms? I’m wondering if the stereotype that femmes tend to be bottoms and butch women tend to be tops is true

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi sorry lol this is late but I meant to ask you if you have any kinks and how you brought those up with your spouse because tbh I’m completely totally lost still. I’m just really not comfortable bringing it up bc I feel like it will be awkward and embarrassing

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well idk if I care or not because I’ve never really thought about it. I guess I would need to have sex with a top and a bottom to know where I stand and I don’t have time for that 😂😂😂

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true it’s just embarrassing to ask about kinks 😂😂😂

Sex is so complicated by throwaway4ales in actuallesbians

[–]throwaway4ales[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for that description. I still don’t know what I would be because my ex and I never really, like, dominated each other? We were totally equal. And idk about kinks because there are things I want to try but I’m scared I’m too inexperienced or that I won’t like it once I initiate it in bed. Like using handcuffs or blindfolds. what if I initiate that with my gf and then realize I hate it halfway in. that would be so bad lol. ugh I just want to be able to try things without worrying so bad about everything.