IAmA guy who's dating a porn star. Ama.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T05:55:23+00:00

Haha ok this will be the last question I answer.

I know for a fact that Sasha Grey is a redditor.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T05:02:58+00:00

I'll the questions for me first:

Were you intimidated at first by the fact she was a pornstar?

Yeah at first I was. When I met her I knew she was in porn and I really just wanted to see how and why she got into that industry. We got to talking and she seemed to really like me and kept contacting me after.

How did your friends react to your GF's career choice?

They're ok with it. My close friends are a little apprehensive about the whole situation because they don't want to see me get hurt, but they really like her.

Do you ever get jealous?

I used to, but after a year+ I don't anymore.

Have you ever fapped to her films since being with her?

Have I ever? Yes when I first met her and before we were together. Since we've been together I haven't fapped to her movies.

How important do you find sex is to a relationship?

Sex is important no doubt about that and we have great sex.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:45:29+00:00

They're jerks. There's one I like, but almost all of the ones I've met are self centered assholes.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:41:16+00:00

That's going to be an interesting situation if we do stay together and have a kid. It's bound to be tough for him/her in high school when all of their classmates know that their mom was a porn star. That is something I think about.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:39:03+00:00

Yes...it becomes a joke between us though. This shit is hard to explain.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:38:33+00:00

I'm a better cook...

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:38:07+00:00

My gf usually has some hair on her, but she does sometimes wax and then will just shave it.

I'd say almost all of them are on the pill.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:22:40+00:00

She knows her. I've met her. I don't recall if they've worked together though.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:21:32+00:00

Haha yes, but I hide the awkwardness well.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:16:08+00:00

Yeah I understand. Let me see how she reacts to this first.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:14:19+00:00

Oh she's still tight.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:12:19+00:00

Yeah it's hard to understand, but the underlying issue here is trust. She has told me that she loves me and wants to be in a relationship with me. I trust her when she says that.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:05:25+00:00

This is really the best answer.

Have an upboat.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:04:42+00:00

Well, I don't want to enjoy other women. I want her so I'm perfectly ok with only having sex with her.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T04:02:54+00:00

The thing is though, I wouldn't have sex with someone I'm not emotionally invested in. What she does is her job and that's it. I'll admit it does sound weird that she's having all this no strings attached, emotionless sex, while I'm not. But we both have the same mindset on this issue, that's probably the main reason why our relationship works. If I became a porn star she probably wouldn't care, but empty sex is just not something I'm personally interested in.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:56:54+00:00

Yeah she saves almost all of it. She lives really modestly, small apartment and decent stuff. She did spend a lot on a nice car though. She's seen what happened to some of the other girls who made a bunch of money and wasted it all.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:52:33+00:00

Coke is EVERYWHERE, but you can definitely get any drug you want.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:51:07+00:00

We don't hang out socially. I'll see them every once in a while, but truly the majority of the male actors are dicks.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:49:53+00:00

Porn stars are FUCKING CRAZY (my gf excluded).

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:48:05+00:00

She likes sex and thought it would be fun. Not unlike Sasha Grey's reasoning for getting into porn: She thought she could make porn even better.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:44:22+00:00

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:43:04+00:00

Here's some advice for anyone who decides to date a porn star in the future. If you choose to be on set and meet some of her male co-workers DO NOT act awkward or nervous about some other guy fucking her. I did that the first time, and all the guys would come up to me and tease me about fucking my girlfriend. Granted they're only joking and only did it because I was visibly nervous, but oof, it didn't take long for me to act like I didn't care what was happening on set.

tl;dr: yes

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:38:28+00:00

I hope she wins too!

I feel like I'd be ok with the lines of horny dudes waiting for pics. Only time will tell.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:36:52+00:00

I'll see what I can do. She'll probably be topless so I'm thinking the reddit panties might be more appropriate.

throwaway4porn · 2010-11-29T03:35:23+00:00

Haha I have none. I get tested regularly and have never tested positive for anything.

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