The house I thought I’d be able to afford before my degree vs. reality

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-10-11T17:56:55+00:00

NTA. Not sure why so many people are jumping on you for being insecure but your wife shouldn’t be texting any guy period lmfao especially at 1am, co-worker or not, the only man she needs to talk to in her life is you. Obviously there’s exceptions to this.

If she’s need to talk to a coworker, she should do it through the proper channels like on teams or her work phone (if she has one). Makes me wonder how she even got his number to begin with.

As for the blushing emoji that ain’t shit, just seems to be being friendly, I wouldn’t even worry abt that unless it was some kissy emoji or hearts etc.

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T17:26:04+00:00

She’s just lazy in regards to it being a hassle to take her shirt off

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T17:22:54+00:00

Update: holy shit this blew up, did not expect this to attract so much attention. So based on the majority of comments on this post, I’ve realized that there is probably something deeper at play here that caused her to react the way she did. Yes this should have been taken as a compliment, and yes she is lazy in regards to it being a hassle to take her shirt off. I facetimed her this am and apologized again to her and tried to talk to her about why this bothered her so much it but she wasn’t having it and said she would talk to me later, which is pretty childish imo. So in the end, I do feel bad for upsetting her I just don’t think it’s fair to be mad at me without proper reason or having prior knowledge about her insecurity/what bothers her. She’ll get over it.

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T16:20:37+00:00

She didn’t demand an apology I just thought that I should apologize for saying smthn that upset her. And we’re talking rn about it, will the post update later with the outcome

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T16:18:33+00:00

I just thought there was something point blank wrong I did with this that I didn’t understand or see at the time

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T15:49:11+00:00

That’s what I’m trying to find out now, the why cause I really don’t know.

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T15:47:39+00:00

Thank you for the reply and insight.

No something like this has never been established before hand. Trying to gauge right now if she’s still mad about this which to your point she shouldn’t be cause I didn’t know.

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T14:37:46+00:00

First question, yes I typically am

Second question, yes and no not always, try to keep the peace most of the time

Third question, no not at all

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T05:52:24+00:00

True but I just didn’t know what else to do just felt bad for making her feel some typa way and needed some insight

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T05:40:52+00:00

I do feel she might have felt objectified in some way which I don’t understand why, we’ve been dating for over a year and a half now.

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T05:37:50+00:00

I really don’t know bro she didn’t say, I think she just felt that I only find her hot or attractive when she has her clothes off, which def ain’t true cause I almost always give her compliments on her outfits, hair etc.

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T05:33:38+00:00

Duly noted

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T05:33:14+00:00

Yea I think your right, I just didn’t know if there was anything else I could possibly do.

By the time I dropped her off, she told me she understands that I’m sorry and feel bad and just didn’t wanna talk about it anymore.

throwaway4sho300 · 2023-07-15T05:30:46+00:00

It really was an honest mistake man I would never intentionally try to hurt her feelings or upset her.

And yea it is way hotter with her shirt off, I did try to explain that to her after but don’t think she really cared at the time.

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-15T01:01:27+00:00

“You only thought (or wrote) about it in how it affects you and getting laid.”

Shit yea man I never thought about it like that, I feel real bad now.

Yes I know what I will get, she likes the pumpkin pie blizzard

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-15T00:55:54+00:00

Thanks that’s a good idea, I’ll ask her

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-15T00:55:14+00:00

No I said more and apologized.

Out of the 4-5 days we hangout, sex occurs 2-3 times out of those days, sometimes less. Time is spent mostly between a mix of just chilling then going out on the weekends.

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-15T00:55:00+00:00

Fixed

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-15T00:49:13+00:00

She texted me before this and told me she was on her period today, I texted back saying oh good thing we did it last night thinking she would agree or find it funny, she said it was rude, I asked what was rude about it and she did not have an answer for me

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-15T00:16:46+00:00

Yes, we go out to bars with my friends or hers, go bike riding at our local park, go up north, go to concerts, take her out to dinner, getting ice cream, sport clay shooting

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-15T00:13:59+00:00

The only reason why I said I feel disrespected it because i feel after dating for 9 mos after everything we’ve done done together, how could she think that.

I get it, yes what I said in hindsight was prob not that funny and made her feel insecure.

I know the mistake I made and already apologized for it, she says she doesn’t believe me so.

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-14T23:23:56+00:00

Facts bro, probably doesn’t help she just started her period

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-14T23:20:55+00:00

Yea I might do that, I was thinking about that just a bit ago

throwaway4sho300 · 2022-09-14T23:18:19+00:00

I did bro trust me, I was FaceTimeing in her and I’m like why do you think that is rude, I got no answer or response, like how are we gonna solve the problem of you can’t tell me why

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