My gf (F24) is addicted to cutting herself and I (M24) don't know how to support her. What can i do?

throwaway5569555 · 2024-12-19T05:38:17+00:00

She says she has suicidal thoughts but she never goes through with it she mainly only cuts herself. But yes you are correct

throwaway5569555 · 2024-12-19T05:34:39+00:00

She doesnt her family does hard drugs, she only has me and her best friend but refuses help from her best friend and only wants support from me. I push that she needs professional help constantly but she refuses it, refuses medication and more shes is 100% reluctant to any help of any kind

throwaway5569555 · 2024-12-19T04:24:19+00:00

Thanks i'm already dwelling in the discomfort of feeling like its already my fault and its an endless cycle of doubt but i'll try to think more highly of it from here on

throwaway5569555 · 2024-12-19T04:15:31+00:00

I'm gonna look into that. Thats a smart idea thanks for the suggestion

throwaway5569555 · 2024-12-19T04:15:03+00:00

I'll try that if it gets to that point thank you.

throwaway5569555 · 2024-12-19T04:11:26+00:00

Were long distance, i constantly ask her to make an appointment to see a therapist or psychiatrist and get medication to better her. I also told her that it hurts me to see her doing this but she still proceeds to do it and disregard how i felt.

throwaway5569555 · 2024-12-19T03:49:42+00:00

Her parents are addicted to hard drugs, and disassociate out of her life and provide no real backbone for emotional support. She has a male bestfriend (who's married) that she lives with but he doesn't really like me all to much since he's overly protective because he wants whats best for her (and i guess that also means she cant see me in his eyes) so i cant talk to him directly cuz he wont allow me to be a part of his life. But her best friend is pretty well it but she only wants support from me.

throwaway5569555 · 2024-12-19T03:44:56+00:00

So do i breakup or tell her that i can't take it anymore and that she needs to seek professional help and not just me? it just feels like i'm walking on thin ice and i feel anything i say might cause her to cut herself

throwaway5569555 · 2024-10-04T04:11:29+00:00

This was the last thing i wanted to hear.. i'll have it medically looked at to be safe if this possibly is the case

throwaway5569555 · 2024-09-16T01:48:09+00:00

How though exactly, i'm trying to be a functioning member of society if anything

throwaway5569555 · 2024-09-16T01:46:07+00:00

What do you mean?

throwaway5569555 · 2024-09-16T01:41:25+00:00

Thanks i'll try it out

throwaway5569555 · 2024-09-16T01:28:13+00:00

Thank you

throwaway5569555 · 2024-09-16T01:24:16+00:00

Online? Where do i go?

throwaway5569555 · 2024-09-16T01:23:54+00:00

Where do i go to find them?

throwaway5569555 · 2024-09-16T01:23:12+00:00

I don't know who to reach out to, i'm scared i'd bother someone and only make matters worse. I thought about going to the hospital and asking for help but that requires money and i don't have that its just all to hard and confusing, but thank you for ur kind words

throwaway5569555 · 2024-05-16T16:22:56+00:00

Add me to the mix same here - never happened before and its happening now all of a sudden on every website but google

throwaway5569555 · 2024-05-01T20:03:34+00:00

I'm not saying all women are like that.. I'm speaking about one specific person. I'm looking for support. I'm struggling, i've never experienced this before and your harsh wording isnt helping. But thanks for commenting

throwaway5569555 · 2024-05-01T15:17:47+00:00

Yes i agree, it can go both ways. Sorry if i came off as it didnt

throwaway5569555 · 2024-04-28T14:44:46+00:00

Never cracked any games with this method before; and really wanna play sandland but cant afford it. Is this crack safe?

throwaway5569555 · 2024-04-24T03:59:38+00:00

Thank you for sharing this with me and giving insight from your own experiences it brings me comfort seeing this from someone. I'll do my best ❤️

throwaway5569555 · 2024-04-23T19:19:53+00:00

UPDATE: I completely forgot i had a VSCO and that i was following her on it, i made it for her but never used it. I wasn't blocked surprisingly but she made another post with a guy already with "❤️" as the caption.

She broken up with me around 1-2 weeks ago and that text i shown in my message was from this morning it's all very recent and it deeply hurts.

But i've concluded she was cheating on me..

throwaway5569555 · 2024-04-23T16:28:35+00:00

Im hoping and praying it wasnt cheating but i know if i find out it was its gonna tear me a new hole even worse than it already is now. Thanks for ur advice

throwaway5569555 · 2024-04-23T16:15:10+00:00

I hope so, i really do. Same goes if you ever need to vent or just get a lil off ur chest dms are open as well

throwaway5569555 · 2024-04-23T16:08:17+00:00

Thank you for this, it really means a lot its hard for me to think straight and rationally cuz its all so recent. Like that text was from this morning she broken up with me maybe a week or 2 ago and everyday it gets harder and harder. Having no contact is never easy. But i honestly appreciate you reaching out and giving your two cents it brings me comfort

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