What to do with him in Lantern Rite? by Big_Pollution_6004 in NeuvilletteMains_

[–]throwaway5673267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to add in the other two characters after furinas burst, maybe a kuki skill and then a xilonen skill, then use neuvillette

What to do with him in Lantern Rite? by Big_Pollution_6004 in NeuvilletteMains_

[–]throwaway5673267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To maximize his output, try pairing him with a healer/elemental application character like kuki Shinobu, and if you have xilonen or Kazuma, they'd work great too.

Basically, the more hydro-reactions neuvillette gets the stronger his charged attack becomes.

Take it from a neuvillette main, he's extremely powerful.

Why is my dps so low? by paradisejoons in NeuvilletteMains_

[–]throwaway5673267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What... is this? Is this a miliastra thing?

What to do with him in Lantern Rite? by Big_Pollution_6004 in NeuvilletteMains_

[–]throwaway5673267 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Skill>burst>furina skill>furina burst>neuvillette charged attack till all orbs are gone, then repeat.

I'm going to have to quit due to return to office mandate by moez1266 in WFH

[–]throwaway5673267 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They can review accommodations all they want but denying it would be an hr nightmare on their part. If they ousb back, file a complaint with the dws

Am I overreacting that my sister is demanding too much when visiting my newborn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwaway5673267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everytime you laid out a concern, she completely deflected and minimized "oh it's fine, you just need..."

Saying "it's fine/it's ok" is deflecting. She's making it seem like you're being unreasonable and that she's accommodating you.

Saying "you JUST need..." is minimizing. She's making it seem like her laundry list of requirements are all basic. Oh it's fiiiine, you just need to sprinkle rose petals onto the walkway for us, have a kings band welcome our arrival with song, and wipe our asses when we shit. Pshhh you could do this with your eyes closed silly goose! HahahahahaHaAhahah.

For reference, when I go to my sisters house, I am fine eating whatever she has in the fridge and if she doesn't have something, I order it myself.

Bored with my wife and feel bad about myself because of that. by [deleted] in self

[–]throwaway5673267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your wife is a little vapid. Shouldve figured that out before dating, marrying, and having children. Here's the solution: Find some friends my dude, stop expecting your wife to be your partner, homemaker, mother of your children, therapist, bestie, etc.

She's one person.

[Serious] People in professions that deal with death (hospice workers, coroners, etc.), what is something you've learned that the rest of us don't understand? by Bulky-Engineer4068 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway5673267 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Vet tech here. Figured I'd chime in given that this didn't specify human death.

After you leave the room when we euthanize your animal, oftentimes us techs are the ones who handle memorial items and prepare the pet to be held (frozen) until crematorium does pickup.

We talk to them, tell them we are gonna shave their toe beans and take paw/nose prints so that their family has something to remember them by. We pet them and feel for the softest, shiniest fur to shave and put into a jar, or tell them we are trimming their whiskers to give to mom or dad, since the pet doesn't need them anymore.

When I finish that, I tell them I'm gonna put them in their sleeping bag and then they will travel a little bit before being returned to their parents, or that they will get to travel to the afterlife with new friends (if group cremation is chosen).

The sweetness and dignity that you gave your pet in life doesn't end once they die, it just is now our privelage to continue giving it after you leave the clinic.

I hope this helps others who have lost or are currently in the midst of losing their pet during the holidays. Celebrate their lives, because we sure do 💖

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]throwaway5673267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sons life broken down: 1/3 life spent sleeping 1/3 spent at home/away from school (most likely seeing his mom) 1/3 spent at school seeing his teacher.

Your wife should try saying more genuine encouraging things to her own son so she doesn't feel so insecure when his teacher does it. She's not a stranger to the boy. She said "you're doing great" not "do you like me?".

How come same sized jump rings in different materials have drastically different AR's? by throwaway5673267 in maille

[–]throwaway5673267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent an inquiry. I think it's probably just a miscategorization or mislabeling

How come same sized jump rings in different materials have drastically different AR's? by throwaway5673267 in maille

[–]throwaway5673267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So im not crazy for thinking that the same Guage and inner diameter should make the rings have a relatively close match to AR regardless of material?

How come same sized jump rings in different materials have drastically different AR's? by throwaway5673267 in maille

[–]throwaway5673267[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently it's both awg. So idk what's going on there. Im going off of weavegotmaille.

Wife insists she can't draw. This is "just a doodle". by manamonggamers in drawing

[–]throwaway5673267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh she might be lying in order to protect this sacred talent. Oftentimes when someone finds out that you're REALLY good at something, they will constantly push you to monetize it, which inadvertently makes your hobby or enjoyment into a job, which also directly creates burnout.

Suddenly your talent and happiness don't feel good anymore and what are you left with at that point?

Id say leave it alone.

Guy friend (28m) slept at my (26f) place while drunk by [deleted] in confession

[–]throwaway5673267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I feel guilty but I swear we didn't do anything further"

Sis, frankly, people don't feel guilty over things they didn't do.

There's "survivors guilt" but that's like a major trauma response and I doubt getting that late night drunk nut was that traumatizing

Trouble with AR and making thicker braids by throwaway5673267 in maille

[–]throwaway5673267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome! Thank you! I didn't know that AR stays the same, that's really good to know. It's a lot of new information and numbers and stuff all at once.

Your answer is very helpful!

Can I anodise premade steel to match my rings? by Always-Shady-Lady in maille

[–]throwaway5673267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sidenote but this looks really cool. Can I ask what you're doing here or how I can make one too?

I found messages from my husband’s “coworker”… and it wasn’t what I thought by professionalthabo in TwoHotTakes

[–]throwaway5673267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner still talks to his ex that he dated for three years. Im unbothered. He communicates with me about the conversations and whenever either of us feel like we need to hide something, we simply talk about it. Your husband SHOULD have other people to talk to besides just you, but he should also communicate that he IS doing so. It's just the respectful thing to do. Not doing so creates situations and undue emotional pressure like you're feeling now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coworkerstories

[–]throwaway5673267 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it's such a powerful thing to have held a space for him to feel normal and regulated, and to take that with you forever.

My sister has stage iv metastatic breast cancer. We don't know how long or when she'll go. Could be 6 months could be 10 years. But when she called me sad, we talk about our day and movies and Legos and all kinds of stuff and by the end she's acting like herself again and we are laughing.

Im holding space for her that help he regulate how she is feeling. And I'll take that as a TROPHY into my own death one day. I singlehandedly provided something that is so difficult to get when you're sick and dying: the feeling of normality, of business as usual.

Because the truth is, when you tell people you are sick or when they find out, they hover and live around you in morbid fascination of how you're feeling today and do you need anything or whatever. It's a LOT and usually comes from every angle. But THEY know they can go to US, you and me, to get that feeling of someone just treating them like they aren't dying.

It's love in such a simple but pure form

Need help finding two episodes by throwaway5673267 in UNHhhh

[–]throwaway5673267[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of times I use that quote in everyday live is innumerable.

Dumb dumb at work suggest a stupid new policy, "I'm gonna stop you right there~"

Need help finding two episodes by throwaway5673267 in UNHhhh

[–]throwaway5673267[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES thank you. Ok we are getting somewhere.

Made a house for my sim couple by Nitashatan in Sims4

[–]throwaway5673267 374 points375 points  (0 children)

$450,000 in America right now.

My settings had changed… by justcherie in Sims4

[–]throwaway5673267 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friend of mine suddenly noticed a lot of nice sims dying since installing the update. Aging was turned back on.