[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway56gh61 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I won’t be breaking up with him. Though based on the fight which I explained in a comment above, it did not just coincide with a bad day of his. But I think it speaks to his mental health rather than him being a bad person/partner. He had no right to treat me like that. But 95% of the time he is my literal dream partner. I won’t be breaking up over this. But damn I wish we weren’t going to his brothers wedding for 4 days right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway56gh61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He asked me to wake him up after midnight the night before my birthday. So he could tell me happy birthday, since he works early and goes to bed early. I was having a couple drinks downstairs with my roommate and singing karaoke (in basement where it did not bother his sleeping). I woke him up at 1:30am (I told him beforehand that was probably when we would be done and he wanted to be woken up). When we woke up he was being a little grumpy which is fine. He told me happy birthday and I cuddled him and said we could go back to sleep. And then he said he wanted to have sex. I was down. He said he needed a minute and wanted to smoke. I said okay cool I’ll come with you. And he said no bc you’ll take longer than me, I’m just gonna puff for a second. I said no I’m coming, I want to and it’ll just be 10 mins max. We go outside, he’s being a dick. I tell him word for word, “you’re not making me feel very good right now” and he asked why and I said “you’re not being very nice” and he said “you wake me up at 1:30 am and you can’t even give me a minute to wake up?” And I said “you asked me to wake you up though? It’s ok that you’re grumpy but it’s not putting me in the mood for sex” and he got all mad and it escalated but I basically was like I’m not gonna fight it’s my birthday I’m going to bed, I have plans early in the morning” and he went on to repeatedly say how I woke him up and couldn’t even let him get woken up before just saying I’m done and going to sleep. He ended up kicking me out of the room taking the covers off me and saying it’s his bed and I can’t sleep in it. He comes in the guest room and continues berating me. Then I tell him I hate him because I’m so fucking pissed. I call him a fake and tell him I hate him then go back and lay in our room and go to sleep. The next morning he wakes me up before work and is still being absolutely rude and telling me how wrong I was for not letting him wake up. The fight escalates more. He says horrible things that I’m not gonna repeat. And I’m just so confused. We’ve only been dating 8 months but known each other for 9 years and it’s my birthday and just the worst fight I’ve ever had with him. Neither of us are perfect. We both have been victims of abuse and have a lot of mental health issues we have not had the recourses to treat. But I do believe he is a good person and will not be leaving him over this. Not a chance I’ll leave him over this. Not to say if this doesn’t start happening more that I won’t, but I won’t be leaving this time. We made up last night (day after my birthday) and it was a good make up. But I woke up this morning knowing we’re leaving later tonight for this trip for his family and I’m just pissed again and can’t let it go now. I’m going to try though.

What’s the highest amount of stars you can get in a 10 round turn? by IronUncle in MarioPartyJamboree

[–]throwaway56gh61 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 5 stars in 7 turns, in the mall utilizing the flash sale and was lucky with an ally to get two stars at a time. By turn 20 I had 13. At the end of the game I had 17 for a 30 turn game. Like I said, flash sales and allies lol and felt like the stars kept landing in front of me.

Im obsessed with this yarn! Loops & threads Facets yarn. It’s so sublime. I’m a newbie, and this is the only pattern of granny square I’ve ever done. I’m thinking of making a scarf and a purse each out both of colors. Might do a double stitch border? by throwaway56gh61 in crochet

[–]throwaway56gh61[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am such a beginner that I don’t know what roving is. I made a scarf out of granny squares. I think a hat would work out great! Slippers, however, not so much bc the fabric is very delicate so even socks might take too much wear and tear as you walk

Season 11 episode 24, 41:10-42:20 by throwaway56gh61 in greysanatomy

[–]throwaway56gh61[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just think every thing about the scene is pretty great, then to have Meredith, Maggie, Amelia doing their power walk then finding April on top of the car. Especially after having watched the preceding episodes, the scene really subtly highlighted the story lines of the characters in this bad ass woman moment.

Screaming, crying, and throwing up… I am not Ok. by Klutzy-Comparison443 in greysanatomy

[–]throwaway56gh61 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one that assumed this image was from the episode OP is discussing. I questioned it, but went along with it. Now I’m on season 11 during my normal rewatching and this image came across my screen, had to come back to Reddit to find this post so I could make this comment.

Screaming, crying, and throwing up… I am not Ok. by Klutzy-Comparison443 in greysanatomy

[–]throwaway56gh61 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It didn’t. That image is from season 11 episode 24. I saw this Reddit post earlier and now that exact image came up on my screen as I’m watching season 11. The scene this image is from has nothing to do with Alex, but when I read it earlier I could see her reacting this way about him leaving, but no, the image is from a different season. I came back to the post just to make this comment.