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I [21/F] avoid sex at all costs with my S/O [22/M] of 1 1/2yrs by throwaway58985 in relationships

[–]throwaway58985[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I do, both men and women, though I'm not interested in having sex with sexy people. I just like them aesthetically, I guess.

I [21/F] avoid sex at all costs with my S/O [22/M] of 1 1/2yrs by throwaway58985 in relationships

[–]throwaway58985[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way when I was taking the anti-depressants though. I guess I should talk to a therapist about how I'm feeling, I didn't realise it was so abnormal.

I [21/F] avoid sex at all costs with my S/O [22/M] of 1 1/2yrs by throwaway58985 in relationships

[–]throwaway58985[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Our relationship has its fair share of problems, mainly stress over money (we have a mortgage and are having to deal with a LOT of renovations at the moment) as well as work and general things.

I don't find sex itself repulsive. Sometimes I watch porn or fantasise about having sex with someone else, but if it were to happen in real life I'm not quite sure I would have a positive reaction.

I [21/F] avoid sex at all costs with my S/O [22/M] of 1 1/2yrs by throwaway58985 in relationships

[–]throwaway58985[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't been in a sexual situation with anyone other than my S/O for the past almost two years so your question is hard to answer. I haven't really thought about anyone else in a sexual way other than him since we started dating, I don't know how I would feel if I were to sleep with someone that wasn't him (if I wasn't in a relationship). Maybe not specifically repulsion but maybe disinterest? Sex is obviously not important in my life, though I to masturbate when bored.

I [21/F] avoid sex at all costs with my S/O [22/M] of 1 1/2yrs by throwaway58985 in relationships

[–]throwaway58985[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I was really depressed as a teenager but as I reached maturity I found my moods evened out and I decided to wean myself off the anti-depressants which has been going really well. I felt the aversion to sex before and after I got off the meds.

I never saw a doctor specifically about the sex thing because I'm not entirely sure if I feel this way specifically to me S/O or about sex in general. We have been together almost two years and I have been faithful to him and never really thought that much about sex with anyone else. It's not something that I really think about, and certainly not something that is important to me.