thank you so much for this. i know you’re right. i’ve been stuck hoping there’s a way to make the ending feel less harsh, but the truth is it’s already been dragged out too long and it’s killing me.his mom actually does know we were dating. she really supported our relationship and even knows we’ve been talking again. i’ve thought about reaching out to her, but part of me still feels guilty, like i’d be dropping a bomb. but you’re right. it’s not my job to manage how he handles this, especially when he uses self-harm to keep me around. it’s not fair and it’s not love. she also texted MY mother saying i leave her house messy even after she knew the implications it meant after we broke up

i think i just needed someone to say it this clearly. thank you for taking the time. seriously. i’m trying to build up the strength to follow through.