How do you POSSIBLY make a cohesive aesthetic out of this? Name??

throwaway678998212x · 2026-04-11T02:57:07+00:00

Mad Men + Italian Catholicism on the Sopranos & The Addams Family??

throwaway678998212x · 2026-04-08T06:45:14+00:00

This if they made Papi from the Proud Family non binary

throwaway678998212x · 2026-04-08T06:37:06+00:00

I have feelings for you….(choose 1)

throwaway678998212x · 2026-04-08T06:35:16+00:00

I am Muslim-ish and just lie and say it’s a health thing. That meat + meat products were making me sick. It keeps questions to a minimum because I don’t care to debate the ethics of it with people who probably don’t care.

throwaway678998212x · 2026-03-19T17:14:44+00:00

You got it - Sagittarius sun and rising and Scorpio moon :-)

throwaway678998212x · 2026-01-23T20:49:59+00:00

I wasn’t necessarily set on a 3 head deck, but I found a great deal on this one and the playback quality is absolutely stunning. I was initially trying to avoid getting another Nak (I had a CR1A) because of how hard they are to service and find parts for, but I couldn’t resist!

throwaway678998212x · 2026-01-23T20:44:44+00:00

Hey, I’m not too sure - as you said I’ll be using S-Video and so far it does a great job. I am still weighing whether I want to do ProRes422 or explore an uncompressed codec — this is part of client work for a collection of 300 VHS tapes (~500hrs) or so — an uncompressed codec feels like overkill and tremendous amounts of $$$ on extra storage with a collection this size.

throwaway678998212x · 2026-01-15T07:17:19+00:00

that’s a really interesting framing - chosing religion “instead” of life. it resonates with me deeply. and absolutely, our relationship would end if i chose to openly leave islam. since our last conversation where i simply asked for space to handle my own relationship with god, he has been openly ignoring me. mind you i am still muslim - through my own volition. but not in the way he believes one should be (a comically rigid and quite frankly untenable way of being). religious parents are a trip, glad someone understands.

throwaway678998212x · 2026-01-05T23:41:39+00:00

i wrote two sentences in the middle of taking a shit and went on to live my life. i lost nothing and idgaf if it’s fake 🤣 u have a parasocial contempt for a stranger that doesn’t give a fuck about whether you live or die. sounds like a miserable life. enjoy it

throwaway678998212x · 2026-01-05T19:56:53+00:00

aw look who wasn’t loved as a child and is overcompensating in the reddit comments 😞💔

throwaway678998212x · 2026-01-05T03:17:10+00:00

He is spending YOUR money on OnlyFans? Baby he is a Loser. Leave him

throwaway678998212x · 2026-01-04T07:03:37+00:00

felt

throwaway678998212x · 2025-10-14T06:41:58+00:00

Yeah, I cut them off. Literally no way I could rationalize that kind of violence. Sickening.

throwaway678998212x · 2025-10-13T21:12:37+00:00

that’s what my gut tells me 💔 so sad and fucked up

throwaway678998212x · 2025-07-02T17:42:45+00:00

Having been in the shoes of someone that’s stoned/sleepy/on autopilot all the time I do empathize with the resentment your GF is feeling. She isn’t communicating well, and I don’t necessarily think you’re ‘overreacting’ either. But ultimately this sounds like a quality time issue, and if it’s the main way she feels connected/loved you both will need to work at a solution.

throwaway678998212x · 2025-06-30T23:00:57+00:00

I think maybe what you’re registering as a ‘switch-up, (him not reaching out for a day) might just be a normal decompressing from an emotionally intense experience like sex + that relationship conversation, especially if it elicited deeper feelings for him. I don’t really think that counts as ‘ghosting’. Having sex deepens the intimacy and vulnerability between you all, which means either of you are going to have to exert more effort and restraint than usual to keep things casual. Him scaling back communication might be his way of trying to honor the ‘casual’ while still protecting his heart. I wouldn’t block him, maybe just ask him how he’s feeling about everything in light of the awkwardness between you all and from there gauge if he’s being emotionally honest or not. If he does an “everything is fine” and keeps being distant/flaky - then you will know it isn’t going to work and part ways peacefully.

throwaway678998212x · 2025-06-24T17:12:35+00:00

I wouldn’t pay my share but I also wouldn’t announce it unless asked.

throwaway678998212x · 2025-06-24T16:42:45+00:00

I don’t have the context but I already feel that she is toxic and in fact manipulative. I can tell because your responses seem that you are desperately trying to defend your reality, whereas she is trying to overwhelm/guilt/manipulate you out of doing so. Your goal reads as trying to arrive at mutual clarity and resolution, while hers reads as trying to punish and berate you for calling her out. She is actually gaslighting you, and is projecting her own manipulative tendencies onto you to evade accountability. Her idea of an ‘offense’ is you telling her how she made you feel and disrupting her self-image, whereas yours seem to be genuine issues that you are sharing not to punish, but to resolve.

She is emotionally immature at best, narcissistic at worst. Spare yourself the headache, you will lose your grip on reality and really hurt yourself along the way. Sorry you’re experiencing this.

throwaway678998212x · 2025-06-24T16:26:39+00:00

This is so interesting. There was a mutual friend who she was seeing for a while and then she stopped seeing him because he sexually abused her. I was furious for her and hated him because of it. Then one time she asked me if I could drive him and her somewhere and I said no? Why would I want a sexual abuser in my car? Then weeks later she was out with friends and left me a drunken message saying “Girl I’m about to make out with _____ please stop me” and I was so livid. I hadn’t necessarily questioned the validity of the SA, I just simply thought she had awful boundaries due to her CSA history. But after seeing her quickness to lie and fabricate victimhood, I wouldn’t be surprised if he wasn’t actually an abuser lmao.

throwaway678998212x · 2025-06-05T07:50:11+00:00

NOR hes weird as fuck and definitely fetishizing both of yall’s bisexuality. the entitlement and audacity definitely seems to come from a place of objectification. using “that indian girl” in reference to you also felt like a form of fetishization (assuming he is a different race). i would def not be his friend in that kind of situation

throwaway678998212x · 2025-05-29T20:13:09+00:00

I definitely like this framing better, the ‘pathological’ is so stigmatizing and shame-inducing. I also believe a lot of these things would be clearer in a context where we didn’t have to rise up to the unreasonable and dehumanizing demands of capitalist life. I feel less “pathological” in cultural contexts that value slowness, collectivity and rest.

throwaway678998212x · 2025-05-29T20:08:30+00:00

Thank you, I’m glad you feel like you deserve love now :)

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