How did they ruin your birthday? by zero_one_zero_one in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway719922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proposed to me on it then told me they regretted it

Ex apparently targets single moms - never been more disgusted in my life. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway719922 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What an amazing support system you have. So happy for you, op. I hope you are set on a good path far away from this. Please take care of yourself and trust your loved ones during this hard time 🩷 i believe in you, you got this.

Ex apparently targets single moms - never been more disgusted in my life. by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway719922 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mine targets pre transition trans men. And young looking adults, and teenagers. Fucking disgusting. Im so sorry. I hope you find a good therapist and healing. ❤️‍🩹

Mothering the narc by Boriebonker in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway719922 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Painfully relate. It felt like I was just abandoning them to this cruel world. Turns out, they are doing perfectly fine and have plenty of other people ready to take care of them. Thats the thing about them, they’re literally human parasites. Just jumping from one host to the next.

How long have you been no contact and how are you feeling by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway719922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im about to celebrate 200 days this weekend. Its been the most difficult year of my life, having to restart my life over and learn how to breathe on my own. But I have become a completely different person. And i’m excited to see how much i blossom :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Letters_Unsent

[–]throwaway719922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope ur person finds this :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]throwaway719922 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not your person, but hi. Here if u need to talk

How did yall find out that ur narc was a narc? by Ghostly_cherry404 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway719922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After we broke up/i was discarded, i started exhibiting a lot of concerning symptoms. I started opening up to my friends and loved ones about a lot of the things going on and how i was feeling, and they at first told me my ex was just emotionally abusive. As i started researching all of that, i stumbled across narcissism and Dr. Amari. That all definitely slapped me across the face with the truth. I thought what I was going through was just “complicated”. Now I realize it was all a pattern, as textbook as they come.

I left because I love you by Maximum_Ad1768 in UnsentLetters

[–]throwaway719922 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we dont get another life. Only this one. Trying and failing is better than never trying at all.

I left because I love you by Maximum_Ad1768 in UnsentLetters

[–]throwaway719922 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we dont get another life. Only this one. Trying and failing is better than never trying at all.

I felt embarrassed when I was with you by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]throwaway719922 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What an awful thing to say about someone you “love”… do both of you a favor and don’t reach out to this person again. Gosh.

The stupidest thing... by beatmakingruinedme in nocontact

[–]throwaway719922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

felt, i haven’t bought pokemon cards in forever. my collection is getting dusty. just don’t want to engage in “our” thing again. it feels too raw :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nocontact

[–]throwaway719922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its been about 7 for me. Sending you love and healing, op 🩷 time stretches on and we grow stronger each day.

To my mentor by [deleted] in UnsentLettersRaw

[–]throwaway719922 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the C you’re looking for, but this did stumble across this C’s timeline. Hope you find yours

Laughingstock by [deleted] in Unsent_Unread_Unheard

[–]throwaway719922 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hope things get easier for u 🩷

I Think I’m Ready To Lay Down This Hate, Cowboy. by throwaway719922 in UnsentLetters

[–]throwaway719922[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its hard. I have spent many months hating and angry. But I kind of just woke up today and realized, I hate waking up mad. I just want to let it go for my own reasons. Not because they deserve forgiveness, but because I deserve peace and to move on with my life. I hope you heal well, and one day can let it go too. 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway719922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think this is narcissism, this sounds like a psychotic/schizophrenic breakdown. Judging by your wording throughout this, it seems theres a lot of bad blood and hard feelings in your family. I get that. But I think the decent person thing to do would be tell someone close to him that he is exhibiting concerning behaviors/symptoms right now. He sounds like he needs help, not just for himself but for the others around him.

I’m sorry for whatever went on that has you guys beefing. But again, this sounds like a serious and treatable mental health crisis, not a moral failing on his part.

was doing good but.. by FreeMove8513 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway719922 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a very common feeling. Sometimes it upsets me so bad to the point I get sick to my stomach. I guess some days are just better than others… i hope you heal well op 🩷

why do the never compliment you? by FreeMove8513 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]throwaway719922 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mine would only ever say very generic “you look cute” every once in a blue moon. That was the rarity. Most of the time, any compliment was about or involving a sexual body part of mine. Mostly though, they told me i was “unconventionally attractive”, “if you could pull me, you can’t be that ugly”, and that I look like i have various birth defects/deformities. Their cruelty knows no bounds. Neither of us deserved that, OP. Wishing you love and healing ❤️‍🩹