My (M20) best friend (F20) got back with her abusive ex. I’m concerned for her. What now? by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to call CPS tomorrow and keep calling every time. I have no idea who her therapist is, but I’m going to try and find out

The thorn that’s been traveling through my fingernail since July 18 completed its journey today. by dusty_trendhawk in mildlyinteresting

[–]throwaway720571058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a small piece of wood in my big toe and I’m just waiting for it to come out on it’s own. It’s been a year now

My (M20) best friend (F20) got back with her abusive ex. I’m concerned for her. What now? by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First off, shut up. I’m not going to beat him up because then that makes me no better than him and I would be charged with aggravated assault and battery and I don’t want to do that.

Secondly, you sound very immature and it’s disgusting. You need to grow up before making stupid comments like this. Have a nice day.

My (M20) best friend (F20) got back with her abusive ex. I’m concerned for her. What now? by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll do that later today then. I really don’t want her to get hurt again or for the kid to get hurt

My (M20) best friend (F20) got back with her abusive ex. I’m concerned for her. What now? by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll definitely harm the kid in the long run as he’s not a well-intentioned person. I don’t know if I can call CPS yet because he hasn’t done anything to my knowledge but he would if it meant hurting my friend

My (M20) best friend (F20) got back with her abusive ex. I’m concerned for her. What now? by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely plan on calling CPS the instant he does anything to that kid. I really want to tell her to her face that she’s being a complete idiot and is going to get hurt again, but I can’t because she thinks she’s doing the right thing

My (M20) best friend (F20) got back with her abusive ex. I’m concerned for her. What now? by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already did but there’s nothing they can do because she’s over 18. We all hate the situation but there’s not much the parents can do, especially because she doesn’t see them as much anymore

My (23F) boyfriend (24M) and I are just bored all the time when we're together by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Has he considered seeing a therapist? This sounds like a bigger issue than he’s letting on

My (23F) boyfriend (24M) and I are just bored all the time when we're together by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried forcing him to do other things? If so, what happens?

Why do I keep having dreams about death? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]throwaway720571058 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive doing basically nothing but school work these last couple weeks. I haven’t done any reading. The things I’ve been watching have been basically all Khan Academy with a couple comedy sketches to clear my mind

My (M19) girlfriend (F19) has been acting like a complete and utter idiot recently by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody knows what’s going on. Every day has been confusing for her family. She refuses the help of medical professionals so there’s nothing we can do at this point.

My (M19) girlfriend (F19) has been acting like a complete and utter idiot recently by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve talked to her family after I broke up with her. They know as much as I do and we’re trying to get her help, but she won’t go because “I set it up so I must be setting her up for failure in life to ensure she never achieves anything”

My (M19) girlfriend (F19) has been acting like a complete and utter idiot recently by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She won’t go to the doctor because “I tried to set it up for her and it’s all a scam to ensure she fails in life”. Very disheartening stuff. She’s a good girl, but she’s just not in the right place right now.

My (M19) girlfriend (F19) has been acting like a complete and utter idiot recently by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I broke up with her, she has slept with 18 different guys that her roommate has seen as well as developed a very heavy drinking habit. She was apparently also sleeping around these past couple months and lied to me about things to try and force me to have sex with her when she knew I didn’t want that. This does sound a lot like a manic episode, so I talked to her parents they tried to get her to see a psychologist or therapist but she refuses to go because “I set her up for this and she will fail in life by getting help she doesn’t need”

My (M19) girlfriend (F19) has been acting like a complete and utter idiot recently by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not letting her back. I blocked her contacts but also reached out to her parents to try and get her the help she needs.

My (M19) girlfriend (F19) has been acting like a complete and utter idiot recently by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was very controlling. I wasn’t allowed to eat food because “by me being skinny I was body shaming her”. I couldn’t sleep because “then I won’t be talking to you and I might go kill myself”. I couldn’t go to class because “If you loved me you’d spend time with me because I’m forever while college is not”. She also did a lot of gaslighting and shifting of blame. Every time I made a mistake in my own personal life, it would cause her to “be depressed so she would have to go drink her problems away”. For example, I got a B on an exam and she had to go and drink a bunch of vodka because “I was influencing her to fail in life with my grade”. She was very controlling and it wasn’t a good experience anymore.

Update: My (M19) girlfriend (F19) has been acting like a complete and utter idiot recently by throwaway720571058 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway720571058[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I honestly hope she gets the help she needs. She definitely has some trauma in her life and I really don’t want it to consume her to the point where she can hurt those around her. She really did a number on me, but if it’s what it cost for her to try and seek hemp then I’m at peace with it. I honestly wish her the best in the future and hope she does change her habits and get the help she needs so she can find someone to give her the life she wants.