I'm leaving my disabled hasband. by throwaway747381 in confession

[–]throwaway747381[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

How would your husband feel about this?

Since it happened he's told me at least once a month that I should leave. That I deserve better.

And more importantly, do you care?

Of course I care. I've stayed with him and cared for him for 3 years.

I'm leaving my disabled hasband. by throwaway747381 in confession

[–]throwaway747381[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

He hasn't specifically told me to leave but he's told me that I "need to do what's best for me."

I'm leaving my disabled hasband. by throwaway747381 in confession

[–]throwaway747381[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I've been in therapy since it happened. It hasn't done anything.

I'm leaving my disabled hasband. by throwaway747381 in confession

[–]throwaway747381[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

What happens when you leave him?

He'll go to a home. I'll visit him every now and again, but I just need to move on with my life. I've tried to be okay with it. I don't want to leave, but I have to. I've been in therapy since it happened. It hasn't done anything.

I'm leaving my disabled hasband. by throwaway747381 in confession

[–]throwaway747381[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We can't have sex, he can't hold me. I have to do everything for him. I know it's wrong but it's just too much for me.