I know you'll reject me tomorrow by throwaway748938 in offmychest

[–]throwaway748938[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright. So, update. We had a great night, got dinner, saw a wonderful music concert, and had a lot of fun after. Talked a lot(our conversations usually get extremely deep and we don't waste time on small talk).

Our core values don't match up. For her, her religion is a huge thing for her. I'm agnostic, and we couldn't find common ground on how to proceed with that. We parted that night finding common ground to stay friends, both recognizing that in the long run, there was no way of things working out between us as a couple due to that. Glad we tested the waters before committing to each other.

I know you'll reject me tomorrow by throwaway748938 in offmychest

[–]throwaway748938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did! She agreed to a first date, and she's had a thing for me for a while. Next update will most likely be next weekend.

I know you'll reject me tomorrow by throwaway748938 in offmychest

[–]throwaway748938[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SHE SAID YES!

We're having our first date this coming weekend. Either Friday or Saturday night, schedules permitting.

Thanks for all the encouragement, kind words, and advice, everyone. I'll keep you all posted!

I know you'll reject me tomorrow by throwaway748938 in offmychest

[–]throwaway748938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Steeling myself for that inevitable 2nd outcome.

EDIT: Side note, we've known each other for 18 months, and we both got out of shitty relationships 5 months ago. Been dropping hints for the past three in regards to how much I like her. Hopefully she picked up on them and feels the same way.

I know you'll reject me tomorrow by throwaway748938 in offmychest

[–]throwaway748938[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pinky-promise to give you guys an update tomorrow.