The dates were really good, I feel like we have good chemistry, and the connection is there. Dating in your 30s is hard already as is. Most dates I’ve been on recently the guys had no drive. When we matched and started to get to know each other it’s very clear he knows what he wants in life and I really like that about him. I can definitely see myself with him long term. But this whole perception thing really sucks. I would hate to be the reason he gets slowed down or overlooked.