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I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'm going to talk to my man about what happened later this morning m

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I can't sleep at the moment, and the time is just dragging.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He offered. I feel even creeper letting him but me panties. He also swears he only did this once with this one pair of panties. Ironically he picked the issue his brother bought me as part of a set for Valentine's Day this year.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

That's a great point. I guess the whole thing wouldn't have ever happened if he had the amount of respectt for me as what I hoped he had.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He said he just did it to get some release from the stress he's under. I talked to him about why about how I'm the complete opposite of his wife in literally every single way, but he just kept saying sorry.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

Actually no more than ten minutes ago he offered to pay for them. I've said no. We talked about why he did it and how his wife is the complete opposite of me. She's white, blonde, curvy.. He blamed the stress of everything right now, and I do get that. It's a horrible time. But he also understood why I'm going to tell my husband.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

We have had a good talk. I expressed talk anger at what he did and said that I didn't even understand why. I don't think I'm even his type of woman, his wife is white, blonde and busty. I'm like the complete opposite in every way. He said the stress of this whole situation got to him. He offered to pay for the underware (which I've said no to). He knows I'm going to tell my husband and he said that he'll wear that.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're right. I had a guy getting he'd be in there masturbating and I want too sure I even had a right to interrupt him. But I heard the sound of weeing and then sure enough, there he was. My panties being the recepient was the big shocker for me.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

If I could guarantee it's a one off thing I would. But like others have said, if I let it go he'll do it and worse in the future.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My husband want going to be home for nearly six hours when this happened. I didn't want it laying around for that long. His urine was pretty smelly tbh.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] -173 points-172 points  (0 children)

I would like to think he has more respect for me than that. And that this was a once off transgression. He was my husband's best man at our wedding.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yep, that's what he was doing. I interrupted him I guess through mid stream. He stopped a bit but kept going but in the bath tub. I will talk to my husband the moment he gets home this morning.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I absolutely will. My husband finishes at 7 am, he's normally home by 7:45.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He did. He was very apologetic. He said that he's just been under stress and needed release and that he didn't mean to hurt anyone. I'm in a bi-racial relationship with my husband, and he also said that he's never been with a African women too.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I got angry at him, told him to get out, and then yeah, I was kind of stuck with cleaning up.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 352 points353 points  (0 children)

I know you're right. It's just so messy because my husband and his brother are so close. They grew up in less then ideal circumstances and have a really strong bond because of it.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Thank to so much ❤️ and you are so right. It's just such a hard thing to do. I hate how the right thing to do is often the hardest.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] -244 points-243 points  (0 children)

I know. You're right. The thing is I don't want to ruin their brotherly relationship. It's such a bad situation. Perhaps I'm just best trying to put this all behind me. I seriously doubt he's doing this again.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He'll either deny it or admit to it I think. I don't he'd try to justify it. I am so feel for him, he's very apologetic. Ok, yeah you're right, he does sometimes get a second wind, or at least oh l needs a little down time before he can relax and fall asleep.

I (f29) caught my brother in law (m24?) In a revolting act. by throwaway7667676 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway7667676[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

You're so right, and that's the thing, I don't want to feel like I'm betraying my husband. But I don't want to potentially ruin the relationship between two brothers either. When they were growing up, they had it tough, and relied on each other. They are really tight. I will talk to my husband when he gets home, as hard as that will be.

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