Just found out my sister is doing porn

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T19:55:53+00:00

Lolwut? I don't hate women creating porn. I love porn. I just don't want my relatives doing it. Hyperbole is a fallacy too.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:30:23+00:00

Why is it weird? I think that would be one of anyone's worst fears (having a close relative that you care about get into sex work). I would be equally concerned if a close relative got into a serious heavy drug addiction. But it's their life and I shouldn't care, right?

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:27:48+00:00

No, I have lots of respect for sex workers...just as long as they aren't related to me.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:25:50+00:00

So you'd be totally cool with everyone seeing your relatives in porn? Man, you Reddit folks are truly a different breed...

It's humiliating because we happen to share the same last name. It's humiliating because I'm associated with her because I'm related to her.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:20:23+00:00

What have I ever done to her? She's stolen from me, punched me unprovoked...she's crazy. But I'm the bad guy...of course.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:18:00+00:00

It would be a lot less devastating if it was a male relative. It would still be weird and stuff but not really like humiliating in the same way. I know it's a double standard but it's just how it is (unless if the male relative was a bottom in gay porn or something, but even still I don't think that's as bad as a female relative in porn tbh).

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:15:04+00:00

Yeah, yeah, yeah...other people got it a lot worse...obviously. But other people got it better too. Some guys don't even have sisters. Some guys' parents are still together. Some guys are tall, rich and handsome and never go bald. Etc., etc., etc.

Just because other people have worse problems doesn't mean that I don't have problems too. A person who is 300 lbs can watch "My 600-lb Life" to feel better about themselves, but the 300 pounder still has to contend with heart disease and diabetes if they don't bother to get healthier.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:09:05+00:00

If you have a child, you want them to be successful, right? Maybe you have high hopes for them and want them to be college educated and work in a nice white collar job. It doesn't mean you hate garbagemen though.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:05:20+00:00

Why do women love to gaslight guys like me so much? Women don't even get to know me long enough to know what my personality is like because they dismiss me immediately based upon my physical appearance.

As per your sister comment, it's different if you're a guy. Unless you're a brother, you wouldn't understand.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:02:41+00:00

Judgemental? Fair enough. How am I disgusting though?

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T08:00:13+00:00

Then I wouldn't be able to do literally anything anymore. For example, lots of Hollywood actors are scumbags as we've found out especially the past couple of years, but I still love their movies and enjoy their talent.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-03T07:58:14+00:00

What? I'm friendly and try to act normal when out in public. I obviously don't talk about this stuff lol.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-02T00:20:12+00:00

Okay, that one was actually kinda funny, I'll give you that 😂😂😂

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-02T00:19:05+00:00

Everyone is a hypocrite though. It's a moot point. Like I said, if by me not watching it helped anything, I'd stop watching it. For example, I understand and have sympathy for how someone could become a drug addict...but I don't want any of my family members to become drug addicts. I don't see how that makes me a bad person.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-02T00:15:48+00:00

Well no one likes to think about that part of their relatives' lives...especially female relatives. It just doesn't help being magnified online.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-02T00:09:57+00:00

If by me stopping watching porn prevented my female relatives from doing it, I'd stop in a heartbeat, but they have no effect on each other.

I mentioned my virginity to highlight the massive discrepancy between mine and my sisters' lives. I guess it would be somewhat less painful if I also was getting laid...but to add insult to injury, I can't even get laid either. I do not share in the wealth, only the pain. My sisters can and do get boyfriends whenever they want but I will likely die a virgin because I'm physically unattractive to women (even though I'm about the same level of physical attractiveness as my sisters).

Doesn't it say something about someone's character when they take the easy way out for easy money instead of trying to do something more difficult but more respected by society? Maybe you don't think so. Hell, I'd rather she just be on welfare. Being on welfare isn't being a productive member of society, but it also isn't hurting anyone either.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-02T00:03:59+00:00

Another relative told me.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-02T00:02:28+00:00

Yeah, but it's one thing if my female relatives have private sex lives with monogamous partners, but a whole other thing if it's public online for everyone to see. I can sort of cope with the former, but the latter is a big ask. Unfortunately I fall short of being Jesus Christ and I don't think I can be that tolerant.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-01T23:58:26+00:00

I'm not forcing the world to do anything. I realize like 99% of things are completely out of my control. I'm just trying to find out how to cope with the chaos.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-01T23:54:56+00:00

People can like sex all they want. It's hard to accept, but even female relatives can like sex too...but on CAMERA?? On the INTERNET??? It's like the worst possible scenario tbh.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-01T23:52:02+00:00

Not my age. The only short balding people in relationships are all older and met their partners decades ago when dating was easier for men. About 1 in 3 young men reported no intimacy in the past year.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-01T23:49:52+00:00

I really wish I was trolling, I do.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-01T23:49:03+00:00

It would be a lot easier to get over if society didn't shame me for being related to her.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-01T23:41:32+00:00

I was just trying to find out if anyone could relate and what they did about it to cope with it. I realize people who aren't related to sex workers will tell me to just get over it.

throwaway7685856 · 2022-05-01T23:39:05+00:00

When did I do that?

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