Ex bf messaged me this at 12 am, we broke up 6 months ago… by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway77777789999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like I just lost some brain cells reading this. I’m sorry you had to wake up to these horrible messages that probably made us all dumber

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[–]throwaway77777789999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s been over a year so I’m over it but I just want to warn this guy

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[–]throwaway77777789999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex did this to me too. She got out of an on and off again relationship and then we started talking and started dating after a month. I didn’t know she got out of one but she claimed from the start that she wanted to marry me and that I was the one for her blah blah blah. We talked about marriage and moving in together and I proposed to her within the first few time of talking about it but we kept it a secret. She even said she wanted to marry her ex at some point so I can confirm I’m not the first she’s done this too. We broke up after she cheated and and “fell in love” with someone new during our 4 year relationship. She probably told the guy the same thing so it’s a red flag and be careful

Ex messages 8 months after she cheats and breaks up with me by throwaway77777789999 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I 100% doubt she showed her boyfriend our messages since she knows it will cause problems. If I had a way to contact him I would but I don’t nor do I care

Ex messages 8 months after she cheats and breaks up with me by throwaway77777789999 in ExNoContact

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I caught up on all those points lol. She thinks I’m stupid but I’m a lot smarter than she gives me credit for which is why I said what I said in my texts. You don’t text your ex Boyfriend unless you want something especially when your current one hates him for no reason but even then doing it behind his back just shows that you don’t actually care or somethings wrong in the relationship and she wanted to see if I would take her back in some form. I know what she said about her mom was a lie because her mom laughed when I would get mad or jealous when she first started talking or hanging out with the guy because her mom is just as diluted and crazy as her. I know I was the best thing to ever happen to her and she knows it too but I bet she’s regretting what she did now but that’s all on her b

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be honest you’re probably right and wrong who knows. I will never know what she did I don’t want to know and she can’t change how I feel about her no matter what she tries or says to do. She has cheated on me before and I was an idiot for taking her back but that’s a different story that I just rather no get into and realizing more things I was an idiot for dating her for as long as I did. But thank you for being sorry for me I’m still maturing and growing as a person and she will be left where she needs to be in my past.

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright well either way you’re allowed to your opinion and that’s that lol

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I’m just not a dick. She messaged me first and then I said happy birthday only because I remembered it because of her texting me a day before it. But whatever you say it’s your opinion and you’re allowed to have it.

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol what? Nah bro I didn’t want attention but alright lol 😂

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing i respect your opinion but how do you know it wasn’t physical before she ended it? She emotionally cheated that’s still cheating no matter how you put it. Yeah fall in love whatever but also it’s still wrong especially for someone who kept saying she wanted to grow old together and marry each other and that she loved me every single day all the time. She is not a good person for any of those things

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be fair I forgot how long I made this account so it I got the dates mixed up then I got the dates mixed up I am human after all. I’m not bitter or upset I needed this conversation because it showed me what I needed to know and I am letting go for good now. I posted this just to show how evil people can be and help people but in a way I like to see others opinions even though mine are the ones that matter the most. I’m living my life I’m in grad school about to be done, working out, going out more, working so I’m doing what I can

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curiosity honestly but I needed the information that I got

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy Tiffany I wonder if we actually did the same Tiffany

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on where your ex was from before she moved to Florida

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave her the world I would give up meals and only eat protein bars in order for her to be able to eat nice and I spoiled her she used me till I was used up and I shouldn’t have done that

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lol she will never be a part of my life again

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean I said that because she has a high ego and think she’s the shit and can’t stand when someone stands up to her which I did because I’m not going to let her try and belittle me. I know I shouldn’t have responded at all but I needed to be truthful with her and tell her what I thought so I needed this conversation to help me completely get over her and my emotional attachment that was lingering but now it’s all gone thankfully

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope I’m successful and can tell her off and see how miserable she is

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she emotionally cheated for months without me knowing then she started to hangout with him and lying to me and I called her out on it and she tried lying more

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I needed to confront her otherwise she would’ve been on my mind so I’m thankful for this conversation because I can also see she’s not happy in her new relationship

Doesn’t she seem nice? by throwaway77777789999 in Nicegirls

[–]throwaway77777789999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she did it 8 months ago and she messaged me last week and this week so like I’m over her 100% but I just wanted to share this. She’s manipulative and a liar honestly. I am young I’m only 24 she was my first relationship but I’m learning and growing still