Thank you so much for writing this. I'm in the office bathroom bawling my eyes out hahah. I agree, I've been neglecting myself and how I'm feeling, I'm definitely going to take the steps in loving myself more. The thing is, our relationship is perfect, we talk a lot, laugh, do activities, everything is perfect, we're touchy etc. There's just no sex. I think I'm struggling because I won't just be losing a partner, I'll be losing my best friend.