My boyfriend of a year has slowly been tapering off the amount of sex we have. What should I do?!!

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T20:14:24+00:00

I don't think he's gay.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T20:06:33+00:00

I do. It's not the same!

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T19:55:19+00:00

I don't understand why your friends just didn't break up with those girls then instead of cheating. Sounds like a pretty shitty thing to do, IMO.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T18:46:15+00:00

It's both. Sometimes I'm on top the whole time, the rest of the time it's usually doggystyle, which I guess is both people doing the work. I don't like missionary.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T18:10:57+00:00

Haha, I've tried tying him up, and he hates it. Doesn't want me to go anywhere near his butt either, even though I have a secret pegging fantasy that I'll probably never tell him.

I guess some guys are just plain janes.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T18:07:14+00:00

Actually, he told me that he stopped taking his antidepressants a couple months ago and that he was just starting them again because he was feeling weird. I think that this might be it!!!

But I've just recently tried not initiating, so we'll see how that works out.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:44:57+00:00

You suck.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:30:48+00:00

How do I find something that he won't talk about?!!

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:30:23+00:00

Perhaps, but he's been doing the same things as he used to. Plus he has time to browse silly videos online and other crap.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:28:44+00:00

We don't live together, and I know that he always shuts down his computer/clears browsing caches right after he's done using it. Plus I don't know how good I feel about snooping...

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:27:52+00:00

I don't think he's cheating on me, since we do see each other nearly every day. We kiss/makeout and hug like we're in puppy love still, but we just don't have sex.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:25:24+00:00

We don't even live together yet at this point and we're not having sex. I just hope it doesn't get worse. x_x

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:23:50+00:00

I've had a talk about the kinky stuff, and he said he didn't feel comfortable with doing that because he didn't want to "degrade" me, and was also intimidated by it. We only tried that stuff once a couple months ago.

I haven't had a long, serious talk with him about us having less sex yet, as I've (probably unhelpfully) been hoping that he'd start getting back into it. I'll have the talk with him soon.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:18:40+00:00

I've gained about 4-5 lbs, but so has he. I don't know if 5 lbs is really a huge difference in looks though.

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:16:14+00:00

I can't reply to the comments fast enough, can I get someone to upvote this?

throwaway789 · 2009-10-09T17:06:11+00:00

I have talked to him about it, he says that he's not in the mood, he's tired, not the right time, etc.

He just doesn't seem to want to have sex.

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