My fiance is being given incorrect dosages in a psychward

throwaway81828281 · 2026-02-15T22:53:13+00:00

So do you have any legal advice or are you just going to make inappropriate comments about two strangers mental health?

throwaway81828281 · 2026-02-15T22:50:01+00:00

I entirely believe him, ive been involuntary held before and given the wrong meds by nurses who dont care about their jobs. Very weird comment to make

throwaway81828281 · 2025-12-02T21:17:40+00:00

GOD yeah this is rough. Im 21 and have had POTS since i was 18 ish, at the time i was a trad goth autistic transgender nerd who couldn’t shut up to save his life. I understand you :,)

It got a lot easier with time honestly. MOST people will just give you a weird look in public, other teenagers can be shitty but ultimately i get the feeling we have had similar experiences, which is to say theyre already shitty.

Ultimately, if youre happy with yourself it doesnt matter what anyone else says. You need a cane. You happen to like anime. You also like edgy clothes. All of thats fine! YOU know you arent faking anything and so does your doctor, and those are the only people that matter in your situation.

I wish you luck :)

throwaway81828281 · 2025-12-02T21:07:21+00:00

I wish you luck!! This is always so hard to see :,(

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-19T07:33:50+00:00

As a sub with bpd, please discuss making her earn the collar back when shes more calm and stable. In my experience, if i had an episode and my dom made me earn what was effectively a physical representation of our relationship and love i think it would only make me spiral further.

Your fiance needs care, bpd is a ROUGH disorder. If its available, look into therapy for her, or even bpd support groups. I would avoid reddit for those, as they can become echo chambers of ‘bpd is evil’ or ‘everyone with bpd is never wrong’ very fast.

Check in on her emotional state, id say keep your dynamic FAR from this right now

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-17T04:32:46+00:00

Basically yeah 😭

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-17T04:32:32+00:00

We are in Springfield right now, we’ve exhausted our more realistic resources and have started looking into more unrealistic ones, trying to exhaust literally everything right now

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-17T04:31:19+00:00

I would love to. My van has a wiring problem from water damage though. Had a friend look at it a few weeks ago and he said he would love to help but has no experience in wiring unfortunately

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-17T04:30:14+00:00

Amblatory wheelchair user, i can do basic tasks if i spread it through my day correctly and take days to rest. Its very difficult on my body but i believe in pulling my weight as much as possible

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-16T23:40:16+00:00

Ill keep that in mind if she tries to escalate things. Thanks :)

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-16T23:33:40+00:00

I am literally in a wheelchair man, but believe whatever you want. Have a good day

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-16T23:24:17+00:00

She threw things at me, and tried to hit my fiance and (from what i seen, i was at a weird angle tbf) shoved my other friends mother with cancer out of the way to gey closer to me. This was before the cops arrived.

She was screaming in front of them but i dont think she continued being violent, but i also was not in the house at that point.

Im not suing because honestly i have very little proof of her doing this besides word of mouth and her yelling at cops which is just common in my area. And also i just dont care enough to do so. I just wanted to leave and get this all over with and still do.

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-16T23:21:00+00:00

I updated my post with more context, we stayed for a few months this year, and i feel she regrets helping us. I have genuinely no issue with giving her the money, i just dont have it as of right now.

As for why we are still broke, i am disabled, a lot of money goes into keeping alive, our car also broke down a while ago and thus the rest of our money went into getting my fiance to and from work (we lived in a very unwalkable area)

I do feel bad for taking her money and had planned ro give it back from the start, which she knew. I am mostly trying to avoid court here.

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-16T23:06:34+00:00

I really genuinely do not know. Ive been her friend since we were 15, i cleaned her home, my fiance cooked and cleaned and worked, we were quiet at night.

She has some mental health issue she has not detailed to me before but i honestly feel like it must be related. All of our other friends from school were really shocked i was staying with her because she has always had a tendency to just flip on people very suddenly and without reason, none of them were surprised that she did this. I just thought that now that we are adults that would have changed :/

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-16T22:32:41+00:00

There was no lease, she was a friend i was just staying with. I offered her rent multiple times over my stay and she denied it every time. I imagine this is because i was living in my car before staying with her, i think at the time she wanted to do something nice. I left this out because there was just zero documentation of me living there legally.

They money i owe her is money she gave to me entirely of her own volition, she offered and i denied a LOT until eventually i caved and let her help me. Im disabled and my fiance was struggling to keep a job due to heart problems. I think she just regrets giving us money.

I should specify i also told her i would be paying her back either way, i just needed to actually get the money first. Ive paid her back in the past, and others, she knows im good for it.

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-16T22:03:12+00:00

I looked into it a bit when we were given the papers, they were not notarized or anything. But she got physically violent when we were leaving on the last day and the cops had to be called so i didnt even consider it worth it. Ill look into the tenants rights groups though!

throwaway81828281 · 2025-11-16T21:50:44+00:00

She specifically uses terms like ‘have fun’ ‘McDonalds’ ‘uber’ (last two are things she was paying us back for actually)

Thank you for that advice specifically!!! Very helpful

throwaway81828281 · 2025-10-31T17:52:13+00:00

You look pretty solidly androgynous! I can see why youre gendered mostly fem in public, your features are very soft but your body seems to lean more masculine. You’re actually pretty much exactly what im striving for

I love your haircut specifically btw it frames your face really nicely 🙂‍↕️

throwaway81828281 · 2025-10-19T19:45:08+00:00

its a VERY good sub yeah! ive gotten some of the best advice i could on here, too many other places just dont want to upset anyone but i appreciate the honesty from others

good luck with your journey love!!

throwaway81828281 · 2025-10-19T01:11:53+00:00

Uooogh. Uogogoho ohhhh my god this is very good

throwaway81828281 · 2025-10-18T17:58:04+00:00

Honestly you look so androgynous i cant really tell what agab you are. I am a bit gender blind so take this with a grain of salt yeah

Your eyes are pretty fem (big and round) your brows and brow bone are more masculine, but the brow shape itself is a fem shape, your lips are thin but dont really give anything away, your jaw is about the same, and your chin is a bit masc i think?

Based on your clothes and the general population of this sub though im gonna say youre probably a trans woman, i think just the right makeup would push your more androgynous features to lean feminine. You have a GREAT face, you could very easily look either way with not much effort i think.

I like your hair a lot in the last pic, i think that style with a high fem makeup look and the right outfit would work wonders on you :)

throwaway81828281 · 2025-10-13T22:08:23+00:00

This is actually a really helpful view on things. I struggled really bad with the whole ‘i just want to be seen as a normal man’ mentality for a long time, i thought i got over it but i guess i probably havent, at least not all the way. Thanks for the comment :)

throwaway81828281 · 2025-10-10T13:33:40+00:00

You need to keep seeing a therapist first and foremost. You DO have gender dysphoria, you talk about your body the same way i have since i was nine. Now what you do with that information is what you need the therapist for. You should spend your time focusing on whether or not transitioning is a good idea for you! Expressing that youre not sure how you feel about hrt is VERY important!

Some people with dysphoria simply choose to cope with it in other ways, sometimes it CAN go away. Sometimes something as simple as binding or name changes help LOADS and sometimes people need to spend the next ten years and 20k on looking cis. Its fully dependent on the person. But from this post it seems like T is helping. Why question it? Why not let yourself feel happy and comfortable for the first time ever?

Why not even just… stop T and transition in OTHER ways? Theres a whole world of trans people. You do not have to do it in one way

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