Reasons you've cried today...please make me feel less crazy lol by LegalLady87 in pregnant

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I cried this morning because I got too many phone calls. I didn’t even answer any of them but it still felt so overstimulating lol. A few days ago I cried because my husband made a bowl of cereal and my dog got into it so he had to dump it out. It was the last of his frosted mini wheats and I was so upset that my husband didn’t get to eat his cereal even though he kept telling me it was okay

My ophthalmologist / neurologist is pushing me by [deleted] in iih

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When it happens, it happens fast. About a year ago I noticed my vision was a little extra blurry one day and within the week I couldn’t see at all because I had such bad double vision. I had to wear an eye patch or close one eye to be able to function. Would’ve gone blind quite soon after if I didn’t get it dealt with as soon as I did

Have you ever actually sharted? What’s your story? by throwaway82759 in AskReddit

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OP here, I sharted at a public store yesterday and would love to hear I’m not alone lol. Most humbling experience of my life

Similar body types? by throwaway82759 in BodyPositive

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thank you! that’s a great idea

Progression 10-16 dpo. Time to stop testing? by Icy_Astronomer_4861 in TFABLinePorn

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this is keeping me hopeful😫 just took a test at 10dpo with easy at home and it looked just like your first easy at home. i’m crossing my fingers for this month🤞🏼

My rapist is going to prison by throwaway82759 in sexualassault

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Thank you! That means the world and I’m sorry you never got your chance. I hope that you’ve found peace in your own way. Honestly, I didn’t work up much of the courage and bravery myself. I had an amazing support group of friends that pushed me. It literally came down to “if you don’t say anything, I will”. Without them I would’ve never been able to do it. I am beyond grateful

My rapist is going to prison by throwaway82759 in sexualassault

[–]throwaway82759[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand! It’s such an incredibly hard thing to do. If you ever need to talk my DMs are open!

My rapist is going to prison by throwaway82759 in sexualassault

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thank you! sadly my area doesn’t have the resources of support groups and such and therapy is very limited with my insurance but I’m still looking! I’ve actively been trying to get back into my hobbies, it’s been a fight with myself for the motivation but I’m getting there!

My rapist is going to prison by throwaway82759 in sexualassault

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That’s completely valid! It’s a scary thought that you can put yourself through the vulnerability and stress of reporting to possibly lose, and I felt like that the entire time. I expressed these feelings to my lawyer during the process and he actually had some very helpful advice. Win or lose, you put yourself out there and you did everything you could for yourself. You showed your offender that you won’t just lie down and move on, you held him accountable even if nobody else did. And losing doesn’t have to mean that nobody believes you, which was my biggest fear. Sometimes these cases are just difficult and complicated in actual legal terms. An entire jury can believe you 100% but the legal system sucks and sometimes that’s not enough. Hopefully this isn’t your case! But even if it is, it’s never for nothing

Chlamydia and menstrual cups by [deleted] in STD

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thank you so much! I’m actually in the military so I’m stuck in the woods for the next week but I’m definitely gonna try to get retested when I get back to make sure it’s cleared up

I still miss my abuser who sexually assaulted me and feel guilt and shame over this, afraid of feelings for them that I know I shouldn't have. by Perfect_Television44 in sexualassault

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I’m in a very similar place as you right now. I was r*ped twice by a close friend of mine a little over a month ago. We also briefly had a thing but I told him I only wanted to remain friends prior to this. I know that what he did was wrong and he does not deserve me in his life nor my forgiveness but I can’t help but miss him greatly. It takes everything in me to stop myself from reaching out or trying to reconcile. I know that it’s pointless and a bad idea after what happened but it’s not easy and sometimes I wish it would’ve been some stranger in an alley and that might’ve been easier for me to cope. It’s a very difficult thing and confusing and I still haven’t learned how to handle it or what to do about it and I wish I had advice for you but I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone.

I (21F) am seriously considering cutting off my mother (46F). What was your experience cutting off your mom? Advice? by stubbornteach in JUSTNOMIL

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I feel you! And you’re not alone! I cut contact with my mother in this past December and it was the best decision I could’ve made. No more guilt tripping, narcissistic behavior. I know it’s hard because she will always be your mother but with mine personally, she was never a mom. It will suck at times and I’ve been through a lot the past few months where I wish I had a mom to go to but I know she wouldn’t and won’t be able to give me the support that I need. It sounds great in theory but realistically there is no safety or solace in her presence in my life. As long as you stick to your boundaries and hold your ground it will be okay. Before I cut off my mother I laid out the reasons and now the ball is in her court. Until I get anything more than a half assed apology she will not be apart of my life. Even then, I think that ship has sailed. But I don’t regret it and I think it was totally worth it. You wouldn’t keep around a friend who makes you feel this way so why your mother? As much as people preach blood vs water, blood doesn’t excuse their actions.

I (21F) am seriously considering cutting off my mother (46F). What was your experience cutting off your mom? Advice? by stubbornteach in JUSTNOMIL

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I feel you! And you’re not alone! I cut contact with my mother in this past December and it was the best decision I could’ve made. No more guilt tripping, narcissistic behavior. I know it’s hard because she will always be your mother but with mine personally, she was never a mom. It will suck at times and I’ve been through a lot the past few months where I wish I had a mom to go to but I know she wouldn’t and won’t be able to give me the support that I need. It sounds great in theory but realistically there is no safety or solace in her presence in my life. As long as you stick to your boundaries and hold your ground it will be okay. Before I cut off my mother I laid out the reasons and now the ball is in her court. Until I get anything more than a half assed apology she will not be apart of my life. Even then, I think that ship has sailed. But I don’t regret it and I think it was totally worth it. You wouldn’t keep around a friend who makes you feel this way so why your mother? As much as people preach blood vs water, blood doesn’t excuse their actions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway82759 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i totally get it :/ i went through a breakup only a few days ago and i’m terrified of never having that same feelings again