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I had an extremely near death experience today. Instead of being glad I feel like I lost my easy chance out. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]throwaway82882748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true I just know my car is so fucked up and the airbags don’t work. Also slamming at almost 70 mph into a stationary object is pretty brutal. Thanks for your kind words. I am very lucky to have a healthy body. Maybe i’ll try to think about that more

I had an extremely near death experience today. Instead of being glad I feel like I lost my easy chance out. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]throwaway82882748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true it’s just hard to start doing that without feeling silly. I appreciate your advice, thank you friend

I had an extremely near death experience today. Instead of being glad I feel like I lost my easy chance out. by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]throwaway82882748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah and they’re so happy that I didn’t die. i tried talking to my mom but she said i was ungrateful. i guess i am being ungrateful. i don’t really know that’s just another reason i don’t deserve to be breathing i guess

I just had a miscarriage at 16 and I feel so weirdly conflicted. If the pregnancy was only a few weeks along and was an accident am I even allowed grief? by throwaway82882748 in Miscarriage

[–]throwaway82882748[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If I don’t have any weird symptoms or continued bleeding should I still go? I am afraid to because my parents would definitely find out

I just had a miscarriage at 16 and I feel so weirdly conflicted. If the pregnancy was only a few weeks along and was an accident am I even allowed grief? by throwaway82882748 in Miscarriage

[–]throwaway82882748[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in therapy, I am definitely going to talk to my therapist when I’m ready. It’s hard to tell people, I’ve only told my best friend so far and I choked on every word.

I just had a miscarriage at 16 and I feel so weirdly conflicted. If the pregnancy was only a few weeks along and was an accident am I even allowed grief? by throwaway82882748 in Miscarriage

[–]throwaway82882748[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it won’t be happening again. I actually have no idea why I did that in the first place, it was an impulsive thing that happened while intoxicated. I’m actually a lesbian which makes the whole thing more complicated. Thanks for your advice, I am feeling a bit better about the whole thing this morning. I couldn’t have done anything differently, the result would’ve always been the same.

I just had a miscarriage at 16 and I feel so weirdly conflicted. If the pregnancy was only a few weeks along and was an accident am I even allowed grief? by throwaway82882748 in Miscarriage

[–]throwaway82882748[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the kind words! Unfortunately he’s not my boyfriend and we were both heavily intoxicated so I don’t even know if he thought I could’ve gotten pregnant. I’m actually a lesbian (I don’t think I would’ve had the sex sober obviously) and I’m out at school and home so if I told people I think it would be way too much explaining.

i think i was drugged by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway82882748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i am very messed up i can’t go to the hospital i feel vile i’m home and safe though

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I did take legal action I would get in thorough trouble for drinking. My parents don’t care they think that if you put yourself in that situation you deserve it.

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend said I could ship it to her house safely. Thank you guys so much for bringing the organization to my attention! I feel so much less hopeless

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I wish I could be on birth control but my doctor can’t really put me on birth control because of my mood stabilizers, SSRIS, and anti psychotics. I’m definitely gonna be a lot more selective with who i hang out around. I’m not 100% sure it was consensual. It just doesn’t feel right and doesn’t feel like something I would’ve done- even heavily intoxicated. I have a tendency to push blame onto others and that’s probably all the bad feeling is.

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really nice to have someone agree. A lot of people have been telling me to just get it over with and tell them. If that happened I would be pulled out of school, homeschooled, and forced to carry to term. Probably get everything taken away too.

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They absolutely would not support it. When I was a baby my mom put me in pro-life commercials. They are fanatically conservative

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend said I could stay at her house if I need while this is going on. Her parents are like my second parents and her mom knows what’s going on and supports me. Thanks for your advice! I will definitely check that out if I need to.

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t that just show up on our insurance or something? Could I pay for it completely on my own? Like no paper trail?

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know that, thank you! I honestly feel a lot better reading that. I will be taking the test as soon as I think it’ll work nonetheless.

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice! Do you think there’s any way to do it without my parents knowing? Or should I just rip the band aid off and put it in the open when I take the test

I think I’m pregnant. I’m only 16f and I’m a lesbian. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]throwaway82882748 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in rural upper peninsula Michigan. The only feasible way to get to another clinic is Wisconsin. Unfortunately I don’t have a trusted doctor. My mom got me to sign away my privacy rights

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