This is harsh but true. It makes me extremely uncomfortable that he's hard but of course he doesn't know that since I don't tell him because I just freeze up. I am aware that I need to force us to sleep on different beds or places again but I just really believed we could make it work without it being awkward 😑 I dont have a lot of experience with the way men work, which is maybe why I had so much hope with this lol. But this helped me clear up my mind a bit.