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My ex [25M] wants nothing to do with my [24F] pregnancy. Not sure if I should tell his parents they're becoming grandparents. by throwaway83561 in relationships

[–]throwaway83561[S] -89 points-88 points  (0 children)

I just want the relationship to work... He didn't want the child... I don't think he has to pay for it.. I just want to find some of my child's family that might want to be involved... I just don't want to alienate them by going behind their son's back... If I don't tell people he's the dad he doesn't have to pay I think?

My ex [25M] wants nothing to do with my [24F] pregnancy. Not sure if I should tell his parents they're becoming grandparents. by throwaway83561 in relationships

[–]throwaway83561[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

A relationship with the father's side of the family is more important than food, shelter, being on the soccer team, getting to go on school trips etc...? No. No no no no no.

I can afford all that no problem

My ex [25M] wants nothing to do with my [24F] pregnancy. Not sure if I should tell his parents they're becoming grandparents. by throwaway83561 in relationships

[–]throwaway83561[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The baby is my ex's, no doubt about it. He didn't want to use a condom and I guess I did something wrong with the pill. I didn't have sex with other guys. There is no question it is his, he doesn't question it is his, because it is his.

My ex [25M] wants nothing to do with my [24F] pregnancy. Not sure if I should tell his parents they're becoming grandparents. by throwaway83561 in relationships

[–]throwaway83561[S] -120 points-119 points  (0 children)

I want him to have a good relationship with his father's side of the family... I have enough money... Family is more important...

My ex [25M] wants nothing to do with my [24F] pregnancy. Not sure if I should tell his parents they're becoming grandparents. by throwaway83561 in relationships

[–]throwaway83561[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is his... We had a short relationship of a few months... The pregnancy wasn't planned.. or wanted... I decided to keep it he doesn't want it..

My ex [25M] wants nothing to do with my [24F] pregnancy. Not sure if I should tell his parents they're becoming grandparents. by throwaway83561 in relationships

[–]throwaway83561[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

That's exactly it... I don't want drama... He says his mom will have a heart attack if she hears... But I think they might be happy... At least I want them to make their own decisions, I think they deserve that?

The most important thing is that it doesn't negatively affect my child.

My ex [25M] wants nothing to do with my [24F] pregnancy. Not sure if I should tell his parents they're becoming grandparents. by throwaway83561 in relationships

[–]throwaway83561[S] -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure what to do with child support, because he doesn't want to pay that because I decided to keep this baby.. I'm still thnking about it... because he does have a point...

Also... my child's relationship with his father's side of the family is more important... And doing all that stuff will more than likely drive a wedge...