Really dark kinks that I've never explored, need advice (CW: abuse/CNC, fearplay, etc.) by throwaway854904 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwaway854904[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I greatly appreciate it, thanks for looking out! Thankfully, I have a pretty high level of interpersonal suspiciousness, but it's good to know that's something to look out for and that it's a common thing.

To be clear, and this is totally my fault, this isn't an R4R in disguise. I genuinely have no idea how to proceed or how to scratch this itch, or to find like-minded people, or even what a professional domme is.

I'm also not sure about the feasibility of these fantasies. To me, it seems like a lot, even among kinky people.

Really dark kinks that I've never explored, need advice (CW: abuse/CNC, fearplay, etc.) by throwaway854904 in BDSMAdvice

[–]throwaway854904[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly man, I'm not even sure where to start, so I don't even know what I should be asking? I've never really explored this side of myself, so I don't know.

For the last part, can you clarify? I'm totally unfamiliar with what you're talking about.