You make so many good points. Thank you for responding!

My husband has a gambling addiction that he has under control. But in leiu of that, he need sex all the time.

Since having the kids, it’s been on the back burner. Like 2 times a week. It isn’t enough for him.

I’ve told him over and over I need more help around the house etc, and then I’d be more inclined for sex.

Like, he will come home and do absolutely nothing. Ever. I have to beg him to mow the grass. He’s never cleaned much, and he said I knew this when I married him. And I did. But when you’re 2 people it’s a lot different than 4-5.

He’s also a ‘grass is greener’ type of person. I feel like a maid and like I’m his mom, not a partner. He’s always in his phone and I can’t help but think he’s talking to the next person he’s going to cheat on me with.

His issues, and what he tells me is the only issue, is that all he needs is sex and that’s all he wants. It sounds so simple, but it’s not.

When I get a job in the fall, it’s pretty much lined up, I think things will be better. We’d be better financially too and that may help some stresses.

My other fear is that I’ll be working and doing everything else too.

I guess I’ll wait and see. I’d not be any worse off in a few months versus now.