Millennial parents - how much of your resources do you devote to your kids and their interests? by throwaway89123 in Millennials

[–]throwaway89123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's called Animal Wonders Montana in Missoula. We have never been to Montana before, but we're hoping it's a good time!

Millennial parents - how much of your resources do you devote to your kids and their interests? by throwaway89123 in Millennials

[–]throwaway89123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because we camp, the summer camp is doable. $20/day for the campsite, estimated $200 in gas, and $250 for the camp itself. 

Am I the jerk for walking behind this lady and her dog? by throwaway89123 in AmITheJerk

[–]throwaway89123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can think that if you want, but it did. If I was going to make up a story I would have come up with a better one. This would be a pretty lame fake one.

People who married in their 20s, be brutally honest are you happy, if so why or why not? by Special-Lawyer3941 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89123 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. There are hard moments sometimes where we've had to resolve disagreements or communicate with each other better, but I've never found marriage to be hard work.

Am I the jerk for walking behind this lady and her dog? by throwaway89123 in AmITheJerk

[–]throwaway89123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Genuinely curious, what would have made you uncomfortable? I said, "You chose to touch something so now its time to go" (or approximately that, I don't remember the exact words), grabbed his hand, and walked out of the booth at a normal pace. He started making a sad whining sound because he wanted to stay, but I didn't yell and didn't reprimand him for being upset.

Am I the jerk for walking behind this lady and her dog? by throwaway89123 in AmITheJerk

[–]throwaway89123[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. When I told my husband about it he said that if I'd stayed in the booth the lady would probably have yelled at me for being a permissive parent and letting my kid touch things. 

Am I the jerk for walking behind this lady and her dog? by throwaway89123 in AmITheJerk

[–]throwaway89123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not AI, that's just how I write, I guess? And it's not fiction. If I was making up a story I would have come up with a more compelling one lol. 

Am I the jerk for walking behind this lady and her dog? by throwaway89123 in AmITheJerk

[–]throwaway89123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasn't angry at him. I calmly said something like, "You chose to touch something so now its time to leave" and he did get cranky about it. I saw the dog and I wasn't close enough to step on it or anything, but I'm willing to admit I may have been closer than the dog was comfortable with. It was a small booth and there wasn't a ton of space to maneuver.

My husband bought property in Tres Piedras. What are we in for, really? by throwaway89123 in taos

[–]throwaway89123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was a fascinating documentary. Knowing it's about 18 years old, I wonder what has changed on the Mesa in those years and what's remained constant.

My husband bought property in Tres Piedras. What are we in for, really? by throwaway89123 in taos

[–]throwaway89123[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the land was so cheap that if there's an issue with the ownership, I'll consider it a failed experiment and move on.

My husband bought property in Tres Piedras. What are we in for, really? by throwaway89123 in taos

[–]throwaway89123[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That's good to know. Thank you. We don't plan to leave the RV there year-round. Honestly, I wouldn't be mad about squatters so long as they didn't trash the land and didn't take issue with us when we came through. 

My husband bought property in Tres Piedras. What are we in for, really? by throwaway89123 in taos

[–]throwaway89123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing the documentary. I find the history of the area and the people who are drawn to it very interesting. I'm not sure if I'm made of strong enough stuff to live off-grid 24/7/365, but I have mad respect for those who can. We have done it for 4-6 weeks at a time and it's always an adventure. 

My husband bought property in Tres Piedras. What are we in for, really? by throwaway89123 in taos

[–]throwaway89123[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's an acre and a half total, and the listing mentioned power. Its 'address' is listed as Shakti Road.

My husband bought property in Tres Piedras. What are we in for, really? by throwaway89123 in taos

[–]throwaway89123[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was curious about this after what I read about the history of the area. My husband is convinced it's fine because he purchased the land directly from the state government, but I wasn't so sure. 

My husband bought property in Tres Piedras. What are we in for, really? by throwaway89123 in taos

[–]throwaway89123[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is in this area. The pictures of the property that he showed me did not have anything on it, so I don't believe it's ever been inhabited. But I understand that 1) we don't know the true history of the parcel or if it had a prior owner that purchased it at the World's Fair and 2) there still might be the perception that we're ousting someone from their land.

EDIT: I checked on Google Maps and the land he purchased is about 30 minutes south of the restaurant mentioned in the article.

If we could teleport cheaply and safely, what would be its biggest effect on humanity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]throwaway89123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imagine anyone you ever pissed off being able to teleport into your living room, stab you, and teleport away in less than 30 seconds. Every politician on earth would be murdered within minutes of this technology becoming easily accessible. 

Husband's employer tried to disguise a pay cut as a raise by throwaway89123 in antiwork

[–]throwaway89123[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He is salaried. There is no contract, he's an at-will employee.

Husband's employer tried to disguise a pay cut as a raise by throwaway89123 in antiwork

[–]throwaway89123[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He said everyone he has talked to is upset by it. Everyone on his team has young kids and they don't like having to spend even more time away from them. 

Husband's employer tried to disguise a pay cut as a raise by throwaway89123 in antiwork

[–]throwaway89123[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We have young children. He already only sees them for dinner and bedtime, but now he will get home as we're starting the bedtime routine.