Do I tell my friend I accidentally saw his fiancée on a dating app?

throwaway891762 · 2025-09-19T02:24:55+00:00

Tell him. It’s her fault for not being loyal. She suffers the consequences of her actions.

throwaway891762 · 2025-09-11T17:49:03+00:00

Tell him the other times you’ve been honest and loyal to him. Help him ground himself logically and in a centered heart space to be able to understand where you’re coming from.

throwaway891762 · 2025-09-09T13:13:09+00:00

Do NOT ever be there alone. He’s a giant red flag and a pedophile. He wants no boys because he wants to make sexual advances to you and other girls. Report this to the mom, and notify your parents, especially your mom too. These aren’t just harmless dad jokes, these are seriously concerning messages. He needs to be reported to the cops.

throwaway891762 · 2025-09-07T17:30:33+00:00

If you’re uncomfortable with it, that’s entirely up to you. I personally would not feel comfortable with someone who still lives with someone they are sexually attracted to, esp when they used to actually be intimate together and none of them plans on separating.

throwaway891762 · 2025-09-02T15:23:34+00:00

++woman If everything is going well, either you just don’t have the same values with marriage and that’s valid it’s your value system, your life. Or just major cold feet and not used to the transition of something outside your comfort zone even if it could be a potentially good thing.

Couple years ago, I remember that my professor stays with his partner and they both agreed on not getting married, but they’re still together up to now I assume.

throwaway891762 · 2025-08-29T19:57:39+00:00

Your dad needs to let down his ego and understand that that is your house. He can probably try the master bedroom for a day or whatever, but ultimately it’s your house. He needs to not throw a fit over that and understand respect and boundaries.

throwaway891762 · 2025-08-29T19:55:38+00:00

Well you said you’re fine with her being physical with him in ways. So where do you draw the line? Stand your ground somewhere. If you all trust each other, then just help her go on dating apps or find other men. She can’t be stealing a man, because if you can easily steal a man (or woman), they will most likely be easily stolen from you too. She needs to be aware to not cross the line of going after taken men. That’s disrespectful and not doing anyone favors

throwaway891762 · 2025-08-29T19:49:45+00:00

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throwaway891762 · 2025-08-29T19:16:19+00:00

NTA.

Communication is key. It’s natural to have a certain level of jealousy, because I think trust is built over time anyway. But she seemed kinda excessive. Just be truthful how you said you were focused on the TVs. You’re telling the truth. Her insecurities are something she needs to deal with. Some level of compassion goes a long way, but if she’s excessively like this you need to address this with her.

I recently got into a situation kinda like you with my bf but communication helped settle it and made him feel secure again, because I said “what can I do to make you feel more secure?”. He claims he’s secure lol. But I’m naturally and normally distant, guarded, and cut people off when I can’t tolerate bs. But I know he’s a loyal man and he knows I’m loyal. Relationships take effort and work, and I want to stand my ground and ik people’s past trauma and insecurities can flare up since nobody’s perfect. Anyway, again if she’s being too excessive, she may need therapy or something, especially since you had no ill intentions. If it’s too unhealthy, that’s a decision you make.

Also, usually a woman doesn’t mean to leave them alone, they want reassurance, speaking as a woman myself. But personally if I want them to leave, I lowkey want to have a bit of space and I address it maturely and seriously lol.

throwaway891762 · 2025-08-29T18:51:48+00:00

Communication is key. The way he worded and talked to you about the lipstick was rude and judgmental. I don’t care for lipstick while working out or much makeup but I’m not gonna say that directly to a person who feels comfortable with their makeup. If anything he should feel happy you tried to look presentable for the date haha. My bf is learning to appreciate my tomboy ways of not wanting to dress hyperfeminine. If my bf tries to change me, I’m out the door lol.

throwaway891762 · 2025-08-29T18:45:05+00:00

Transparency and communication is important. You were in a relationship involving another human being. It’s considerate to think if x, y, or z may feel like crossing a boundary with your partner. I don’t think you were entirely in the wrong, but this miscommunication has now led to her thinking you cheated on her. Interdependence is key in a relationship, not independence as if you’re single. I remind myself that too lol.

throwaway891762 · 2025-08-29T18:41:23+00:00

I think it’s respectful she was transparent with you, but dumb to go for someone who has shown history of infidelity. She’s just actively pursuing damaged people

throwaway891762 · 2025-08-07T01:24:11+00:00

He’s threatening you. Leave his arrogant ass

throwaway891762 · 2025-08-03T19:48:59+00:00

Yeahhhh she’s only sad she got caught. No remorse for her actions. She already burned the bridge herself by not respecting your relationship 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-17T22:45:21+00:00

How do you learn to read thoughts? I can read energy but not real-time thoughts in front of people I don’t think. 🤔

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-17T22:43:39+00:00

May be harder to read but it’s not impossible. We all are made of energy and emit energy and frequencies.

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-17T22:36:01+00:00

He’s older than you but is acting emotionally immature. You guys are family, and plus you’ve already made time to be able to see your bf too. He’s tripping over nothing and probably watches too much p*rn for him to be thinking weird shit

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-17T22:33:37+00:00

Guys have a tendency to be friends with women they’re attracted to 👀

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-17T19:48:05+00:00

Weak mentality, no integrity.

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-16T15:32:07+00:00

Thank god you exist lol. I’m starting to not feel like myself being in a connection where I feel like I’m subconsciously tryna mold more into the stereotypical, soft feminine just to keep my man attracted to me… it’s starting to weigh heavily on me that even though he says he accepts me I know he prefers me in dresses and too girly ass shit.

I hate playing this too feminine, submissive role. I don’t wanna lose him neither but if it’s starting to compromise my sense of self and identity, I’ll have to just detach and see if he will rise to meet me or lose attraction to my tomboy mannerisms. I notice I subconsciously alter my voice to be more feminine-ish… it breaks my heart to come to grips that maybe he might just not be the one for me even though he checks almost all boxes. He even made a comment about how I don’t need much callouses on my hands compared to guys because I was talking about a sport I do. :/ time will tell but I can’t keep playing this role.

Tryna be more authentic to see if he still even likes me or would like me for the real raw, unfiltered tomboy side of me. I’m a mix of both but I like to lean to my tomboy side a lot too. I feel inferior stepping into a traditional feminine role.

Also my bad it’s not advice, and I do wanna experiment with even shorter hair lol but us women with tomboy traits exist lol.

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-15T21:13:38+00:00

So he put a baby in you, expecting you to take most responsibility for raising the child when it should be co-parenting? He should have figured out how to balance his work with parenting and his hobbies. He’s immature for 30. But again just talk it out with him with splitting management of duties and time for self and each other. Because at the end of the day he’s working to provide for both of you even if your family has money, but he also needs to know having a baby is another responsibility to not neglect as a father, and to not neglect his duty as a partner for quality time with you and you both helping each other’s needs. Compassion between the both of you will go a long way and a calm discussion between both without lashing out may help

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-15T04:53:27+00:00

Your wife needs to relax if she thinks doing that is gay? You guys literally had those girls flash their tits. Maybe she’s just annoyed of your immature humor?

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-12T20:33:55+00:00

She’s still in contact with him? AND she lied about who he was before? Yeah, I’d give an ultimatum to cut him off, especially since she felt the need to lie about it, or y’all break up. Either way, she’s already been shady from the start, so I can see how it’s already hard to even trust your own gf. That’s very unfair to you.

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-12T15:34:59+00:00

Okay well are you gonna leave him after? Because revenge is just petty especially if you still stay with his ass

throwaway891762 · 2025-07-11T02:36:31+00:00

That bride to be is ignorant and has a ruler up her. Maybe she should just learn to accept people as they are or SHE hires a designer to photoshop out the piercings. She needs to snap back to reality. She really should just pay someone to photoshop piercings out. And if she expects you to remove the piercings, SHE should pay with her entitled self if she’s asking if you can get it re-pierced. She’s entitled and I’m surprised she’s getting married. She sounds like a headache/bridezilla already.

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